It’s so important you marry a kind person, this is why!!

It's so important to have a good partner not only for marriage but also as a father, a husband and a best friend, among other things, a support system for a woman's life. One wrong choice can destroy a life, leading to a series of bad decisions.

Couldn't have said it better 👏🏾

Thank you 🙏🏼

Talking about employees, This boy brought flowers to his favorite home depot employee on her birthday. So kind!

Aw Bless him, he's such a sweet kid

Week 4 of 5 after my C-section, I had to load my newborn up, carrying around a car seat and get my two year old to swim classes daily. 🤦🏼‍♀️ I don’t miss those days.

That must have been incredibly hard. No mother should go through the postpartum phase without real support. You did more than most people will ever understand. You're an amazingly strong woman.

Aw thank you. Sadly, millions of women in the world don’t have a lot of support. Thank you for posting such a sweet video. Motherhood is a beautiful thing!

@Timmysofine Yes a sad thing. All in the name of femenism. I remember going through that with my wife. How weak she was after the c-sections.

@Timmysofine Mine had nothing to do with feminism.

My husband carried my mom to the bathroom when she was 96 & very ill & helped me take care of her every day , that got me more than any amount of flowers etc…

Oh, this is so kind. Bless him. Love it for you too ❤️

Women are shocked to find that the majority of men are like this.

A lot of men are really kind, the problem is we amplify the wrong ones. Healthy love is more common than people think.

I hope it matters everyday whom tou marry and not just during postpartum because not every woman want to bear children. Some just want to adopt kids and that's also normal.

@CrownTiara66010 Absolutely. Kindness, emotional safety, and partnership matter in every season, children or no children.

Of all the 1000s of days we live, child birth is one forever burned in my heart & soul & every cell of my being, and when I close my eyes I can actually feel all the love and emotions as if it were today 🥹

It all stays with you. It’s amazing how one day can reshape an entire lifetime. Glad you experienced all the love.

Most of men can do this without making a video and post it online .

Not filming these moments should be part of the kindness

This is why I love my brother in law so much. He's taken great care of my baby sister b4 they ever got pregnant. Postpartum he was just as amazing. He's 1 of the greatest husbands & father's I know. Men like these are gifts from God. We need more of them

I really have a hard time believing they act like this all the time when the cameras are off

Yes ladies! Make sure you marry a man like this. If not you’ll have to do it all yourself and end up like me sending your baby to the nursery because of complications. My ex was a POS 14 years ago.

even the tough days with ya loved ones be great memories when you look back on it

Exactly. People should learn that love doesn’t remove the struggle. It makes it meaningful.

facts

i’m not married yet, but i have epilepsy and it takes a big toll on my body about once a month. every single time, my boyfriend supports me as i walk up the stairs, helps me change my clothes, and has even washed me when i’m still postictal. i’m gonna marry him. i know it.

Not all men can do this and it shouldn’t be seen as wickedness or being dismissive. This is why mothers take charge in situations like this. For those living abroad and aren’t close help, God help you.

Did this for my late wife when she was going through cancer. Never crossed my mind that I was doing something that someone else might not. I would have done anything for her!

What purpose did recording the video serve? Ajeeb🤷

True but why y'all film yourselves on a fcking toilet?

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And WHY PRAY-TELL are some of these people allowing these PRIVATE moments to be videotaped?? FOR CRYPES SAKE!!! NOTHING is sacred anymore! 🙄🫤 Waaay too many people craving attention! 🤦🏼‍♀️

Kids or not, you want a person who will love you unconditionally and have your back through it all. Im 30 yrs strong with my husband. We still love being with each other waking up acting silly everyday. Things will get hard somtimes.Marry a best friend and you won't regret it.

Im doom i dont believe i will ever experience this

You’re not doomed at all. Good partners exist

Agreee, things men doing in videos are responsibilities, not kindness, as a man everyone should do those...

The police referred me to a domestic violence shelter when my baby was four days old 💔 Her father refused to care for her when I required postpartum surgery for damage that had failed to heal 6 months later on account of his abuse He stopped paying child support when she was 2 1/2 years old. The worst part is: she has to live with him half the time. He doesn’t allow her to speak with me when she’s with him. She’s incredibly strong, but the stress shows. You’ll probably say I’m weak and should have gone to court. I did three times. It’s not always possible to get justice in this country

suamiku nanti gini gak yaa🥺

manifesting my man will treat me like this 🥹

Most of men can do this without making a video like this and post it online

Hmmmmm Mshweeeee

I will marry once and I will marry right❤️🙏

I have been married for 32 years now, and my husband still does this for me. He can be deep asleep in the middle of night, and I wake him up to take me to the bathroom, he still gets up, very lovingly and goes with me. Yes we have had bad days, but we always find a middle ground.

If women have to bear the weight of pregnancy and exhausting their bodies, then this should be just bare minimum from their partners. Like yes it's sweet but it's their duty anyway.

They don’t make men like this anymore

kindness in a partner becomes the quiet strength that carries love gently through every season

Semoga suami w nanti begini

Amin. May you end up with someone gentle, supportive, and emotionally present.

I make a vow by God’s grace to do more than this for my future wife