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Jeff Bezos: “Stress comes from ignoring things that you shouldn’t be ignoring” “If I find that some particular thing is causing me stress, that’s a warning flag for me. What it means is there’s something that I haven’t completely identified - perhaps in my conscious mind - that is...

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Jeff Bezos explains the real cause of stress and how to get rid of it: Most people blame the workload. Bezos: "Stress doesn't come from hard work. You can be working incredibly hard and loving it. And likewise, you can be out of work and incredibly stressed over that." The real source is something you've been avoiding. Bezos: "Stress primarily comes from not taking action over something that you can have some control over." Bezos: "There's something that I haven't completely identified, perhaps in my conscious mind, that is bothering me and I haven't yet taken any action on it." The fix isn't solving it. It's starting. Bezos: "As soon as I identify it and make the first phone call or send off the first email message, even if it's not solved, the mere fact that we're addressing it dramatically reduces any stress." Bezos: "Stress comes from ignoring things that you shouldn't be ignoring." The relief comes from moving, not from finishing.

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itzy ryujin bought a stress ball for #karina 💙 this is my stress ball! 💙 when i'm feeling stressed, i squish it like this 💙 i initially have another favourite stress ball. but not too long ago, i injured my hand, and that stress ball has sharp points so it kept pressing (at the injury), so that's why i changed it to something that's soft and bring it with me ❓️ may i ask where did you get it from? 💙 my friend, itzy ryujin bought this for me so i don't know about that myself. i will ask her later and let you know
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itzy ryujin bought a stress ball for #karina 💙 this is my stress ball! 💙 when i'm feeling stressed, i squish it like this 💙 i initially have another favourite stress ball. but not too long ago, i injured my hand, and that stress ball has sharp points so it kept pressing (at the injury), so that's why i changed it to something that's soft and bring it with me ❓️ may i ask where did you get it from? 💙 my friend, itzy ryujin bought this for me so i don't know about that myself. i will ask her later and let you know

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Jeff Bezos challenges conventional views on professional satisfaction and executive pressure. His first point is a reality check on work-life expectations: "People have very high standards for how they want their work life to be. If you can get your work life to where you enjoy half of it, that is amazing, because very few people ever achieve that." Why such a high bar? Because nothing is friction-free. "The truth is everything comes with overhead. That's reality. Everything comes with pieces that you don't like." He illustrates this with examples from even the most coveted role: "You could be a Supreme Court justice and there's still going to be pieces of your job you don't like..." His advice is to accept the friction without letting it poison your outlook: "Every job comes with pieces you don't like and we need to say that's part of it and not resent those pieces… but also try to minimize them." Then he flips the script on leadership and stress: "There's this false idea that CEOs are under the most stress. Why? You're in charge. Why don't you delegate the stress?" His conclusion is disarmingly simple: "It's your choice. You have to figure out how to set up your life in such a way that you can minimize the things." Two powerful reframes from Jeff Bezos here: First, enjoying half your work is an achievement most people never reach — so stop waiting for 100%. Second, if you're in a position of authority and drowning in stress, that's a design problem, not an inevitability.

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🐺: is there any thing you'd want from me, like a promise? 🐥: just stay the way you are. i love the way things are right now. if there's ever something on your mind, just say it straight and work it out instead of holding it in, i really like that 🐺: if i could ask something from you, felix. even though you already feel comfortable with me i'd like you to... 🐥: lean on you more? 🐺: yeah, that'd be nice. and also i'll try my best to help you out as much as i can 🐥: that means a lot, thank you
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🐺: is there any thing you'd want from me, like a promise? 🐥: just stay the way you are. i love the way things are right now. if there's ever something on your mind, just say it straight and work it out instead of holding it in, i really like that 🐺: if i could ask something from you, felix. even though you already feel comfortable with me i'd like you to... 🐥: lean on you more? 🐺: yeah, that'd be nice. and also i'll try my best to help you out as much as i can 🐥: that means a lot, thank you

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Ben Horowitz: “Do not expect life to be fair. It will only defeat you.” The Andreessen Horowitz co-founder is asked for advice that he has found useful in his own life. Ben responds: “The thing that I would say has had the biggest effect on me is something my father said to me years ago: ‘Life isn’t fair.’ That advice seems really simple, but the thing I’ve seen that defeats people more than any other thing in life is the expectation of some fairness.” He continues: “There are all kinds of things that are going to happen to you that don’t happen to other people and are completely unfair. But it doesn’t matter because that’s the way it is. And as soon as you can get that idea out of your mind [that life should be fair], you can just deal with it… ‘What should I do now?’ is the real question — not ‘How do I go back and get people to be fair?’… Life’s not fair. That’s the nature of it. If you think about it more than five seconds, you’ll realize that… As an individual, do not expect anything to be fair. It will only defeat you.” Video source: Lenny Rachitsky (Sep 2025)
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Ben Horowitz: “Do not expect life to be fair. It will only defeat you.” The Andreessen Horowitz co-founder is asked for advice that he has found useful in his own life. Ben responds: “The thing that I would say has had the biggest effect on me is something my father said to me years ago: ‘Life isn’t fair.’ That advice seems really simple, but the thing I’ve seen that defeats people more than any other thing in life is the expectation of some fairness.” He continues: “There are all kinds of things that are going to happen to you that don’t happen to other people and are completely unfair. But it doesn’t matter because that’s the way it is. And as soon as you can get that idea out of your mind [that life should be fair], you can just deal with it… ‘What should I do now?’ is the real question — not ‘How do I go back and get people to be fair?’… Life’s not fair. That’s the nature of it. If you think about it more than five seconds, you’ll realize that… As an individual, do not expect anything to be fair. It will only defeat you.” Video source: Lenny Rachitsky (Sep 2025)

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205,649 Aufrufe • vor 11 Monaten

Did you know that certain types of stress can actually be positive for young children’s healthy development? On first blush this may sound counterintuitive. But it’s true. Here’s why: No one is immune from stress in life - and while the prolonged and chronic activation of the body’s stress response systems (as a result of things like domestic violence, drug abuse, and/or a caregiver’s mental illness) can have developmentally toxic effects on children, periodic exposure to “positive stress” helps them learn to navigate the world around us. What is positive stress? In a nutshell, positive stress is short-term and well-supported exposure to things that may be uncomfortable - or even a little bit frightening. Things like: Having to share your toys. Visiting the doctor’s office for an immunization. The first day in a new classroom. Or, in this case, going through the car wash. Positive stress helps to nurture resilience and bravery - which this little guy is showing in abundance. Watch how hard he works to overcome his apprehension about the car wash - powering through in a (semi-successful) effort to convince himself that the experience is actually fantastic. (Fake it ‘til you make it, little guy!) He’s under some stress, but that’s okay. It’s brief, he’s completely safe, and he is well supported by his parents - allowing him to begin developing essential life skills. To be clear, the message here is NOT to seek out opportunities to create anxiety. Instead, it is that we are all periodically exposed to brief periods of discomfort and that these aren’t necessarily to be avoided at all costs, even during the early years. This sweet video via briannaaweaver on TT.
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Did you know that certain types of stress can actually be positive for young children’s healthy development? On first blush this may sound counterintuitive. But it’s true. Here’s why: No one is immune from stress in life - and while the prolonged and chronic activation of the body’s stress response systems (as a result of things like domestic violence, drug abuse, and/or a caregiver’s mental illness) can have developmentally toxic effects on children, periodic exposure to “positive stress” helps them learn to navigate the world around us. What is positive stress? In a nutshell, positive stress is short-term and well-supported exposure to things that may be uncomfortable - or even a little bit frightening. Things like: Having to share your toys. Visiting the doctor’s office for an immunization. The first day in a new classroom. Or, in this case, going through the car wash. Positive stress helps to nurture resilience and bravery - which this little guy is showing in abundance. Watch how hard he works to overcome his apprehension about the car wash - powering through in a (semi-successful) effort to convince himself that the experience is actually fantastic. (Fake it ‘til you make it, little guy!) He’s under some stress, but that’s okay. It’s brief, he’s completely safe, and he is well supported by his parents - allowing him to begin developing essential life skills. To be clear, the message here is NOT to seek out opportunities to create anxiety. Instead, it is that we are all periodically exposed to brief periods of discomfort and that these aren’t necessarily to be avoided at all costs, even during the early years. This sweet video via briannaaweaver on TT.

Dan Wuori

420,826 Aufrufe • vor 2 Jahren

I fainted for the first time in my life, and it was due to stress, we all work so hard and forget to rest the body that does the work, this video is a reminder to al of us to please take time off and rest. Thank you for watching ILYSM💙
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I fainted for the first time in my life, and it was due to stress, we all work so hard and forget to rest the body that does the work, this video is a reminder to al of us to please take time off and rest. Thank you for watching ILYSM💙

Nnanna

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THE RIGHT AMOUNT OF STRESS “People say: ‘How are you doing? Are you stressed or relaxed?’ I say: ‘I'm not stressed enough.’ I miss the level of intensity, the storm I was in the middle of, at Zynga… Because it was such a high to be in this creative loop: that I could be working with amazing product teams and making these huge leaps every week, and come up with ideas, get them out, see users love it, see metrics move, see our financials move weekly. That's a high that I miss. And when I'm in the abyss — which is what I call any time in between those — I have a different kind of stress and anxiety.” mark pincus via My First Million ht Sam Parr Shaan Puri
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THE RIGHT AMOUNT OF STRESS “People say: ‘How are you doing? Are you stressed or relaxed?’ I say: ‘I'm not stressed enough.’ I miss the level of intensity, the storm I was in the middle of, at Zynga… Because it was such a high to be in this creative loop: that I could be working with amazing product teams and making these huge leaps every week, and come up with ideas, get them out, see users love it, see metrics move, see our financials move weekly. That's a high that I miss. And when I'm in the abyss — which is what I call any time in between those — I have a different kind of stress and anxiety.” mark pincus via My First Million ht Sam Parr Shaan Puri

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Paul Rudd admits he's stressed and anxious about almost everything all the time Kristin: "Do you ever get stressed or anxious?" Paul: "Oh my god, all the time" Kristin: "I was going to say you don't seem that way, you seem kind of even" Paul: "I feel stress at the state of the world. I feel stress at the number of people who I owe phone calls or texts or emails to, people waiting on an answer, and I just buckle under it. I feel stress over starting a press tour" "I honestly feel stressed over most things. I think I'm stressed way more than I think"
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sara

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👤: you said “ride or die” is a song that contains an emotion i needed”. what kind of emotion is that? 🦌: the phrase “ride or die” itself basically means “i’ll be with you until the end, i’ll stay with you forever.” for me, that became a really big message. It can be a love song too, but i wrote it for my fans, and in that sense, i think it might have been the message i needed most at that time
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👤: you said “ride or die” is a song that contains an emotion i needed”. what kind of emotion is that? 🦌: the phrase “ride or die” itself basically means “i’ll be with you until the end, i’ll stay with you forever.” for me, that became a really big message. It can be a love song too, but i wrote it for my fans, and in that sense, i think it might have been the message i needed most at that time

ev.

45,011 Aufrufe • vor 1 Monat

“I always apply the rule: may the best idea win. I don’t care if it came from you, you, or me. If it’s better, that’s what goes in the song. I do kind of like it when people challenge me on something. If it must be my idea that makes it through, I’m never gonna grow that way.”
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“I always apply the rule: may the best idea win. I don’t care if it came from you, you, or me. If it’s better, that’s what goes in the song. I do kind of like it when people challenge me on something. If it must be my idea that makes it through, I’m never gonna grow that way.”

madi ☁️

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ROSALÍA speaks for the first time about what happened that forced her to postpone three LUX TOUR shows: “It’s such a long, long journey to see you all here. It’s such a lovely feeling to be able to perform for you. Thank you for being so… Thank you. It’s a very… it’s a very, very… let me speak. Thank you for understanding. And that the loved ones need to come first. And I think that… yeah… we live… But when something unexpected and painful happens to you, it can be hard to keep going. But I truly believe that doing this is worth it. And I truly believe that me coming and sharing this with you, and you sharing it with me… I will do it with all the love that I have. And maybe it will be a little short, but you can take this with you. And hopefully, you will be able to take it with you again. To be honest, I don’t know what would make me happier. And I love you so much.”
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ROSALÍA speaks for the first time about what happened that forced her to postpone three LUX TOUR shows: “It’s such a long, long journey to see you all here. It’s such a lovely feeling to be able to perform for you. Thank you for being so… Thank you. It’s a very… it’s a very, very… let me speak. Thank you for understanding. And that the loved ones need to come first. And I think that… yeah… we live… But when something unexpected and painful happens to you, it can be hard to keep going. But I truly believe that doing this is worth it. And I truly believe that me coming and sharing this with you, and you sharing it with me… I will do it with all the love that I have. And maybe it will be a little short, but you can take this with you. And hopefully, you will be able to take it with you again. To be honest, I don’t know what would make me happier. And I love you so much.”

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Jayson Tatum: “It might not seem like it, cause I’m back playing, but it was a very, very long time for me not to be doing what I love to do. “So, I can’t stress it enough, the fact that I get to put my uniform on and run out there with the team is a win for me...The amount of joy I’ve been able to find just being back out there and being out there with my teammates is all I think about.”
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Jayson Tatum: “It might not seem like it, cause I’m back playing, but it was a very, very long time for me not to be doing what I love to do. “So, I can’t stress it enough, the fact that I get to put my uniform on and run out there with the team is a win for me...The amount of joy I’ve been able to find just being back out there and being out there with my teammates is all I think about.”

Bobby Krivitsky

113,287 Aufrufe • vor 3 Monaten

Therapist Trey Tucker came on Relatable to talk about anxiety. I asked him, "If you could define anxiety, how would you define it?" Tucker: "Fear of the future. Fear of the unknown. The verse, 'Be still and know that I am God' used to make me so angry. I'm like, God, what do you mean be still? Like, I got a real problem here. I'm in a storm. Why do you want me to just be still? And what I realized is that the word, and I believe it's "Rapha" in the Hebrew, it doesn’t mean just ‘don’t move.’ It means ‘release your grip.’ The idea that I thought that I had control, that was a lie anyway. If I can start to realize like, yes, the circumstances might happen that are negative or I might be in the middle of a battle right now, but if I can loosen my grip and stop white knuckling it, then I can realize that like oh—God is God, not me, and He’s going to take care of me no matter what happens. That really is the solution to anxiety. It’s not changing your circumstances or slapping meds on it.”
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Therapist Trey Tucker came on Relatable to talk about anxiety. I asked him, "If you could define anxiety, how would you define it?" Tucker: "Fear of the future. Fear of the unknown. The verse, 'Be still and know that I am God' used to make me so angry. I'm like, God, what do you mean be still? Like, I got a real problem here. I'm in a storm. Why do you want me to just be still? And what I realized is that the word, and I believe it's "Rapha" in the Hebrew, it doesn’t mean just ‘don’t move.’ It means ‘release your grip.’ The idea that I thought that I had control, that was a lie anyway. If I can start to realize like, yes, the circumstances might happen that are negative or I might be in the middle of a battle right now, but if I can loosen my grip and stop white knuckling it, then I can realize that like oh—God is God, not me, and He’s going to take care of me no matter what happens. That really is the solution to anxiety. It’s not changing your circumstances or slapping meds on it.”

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