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Jeff Bezos on why stress is almost always a sign that you're avoiding action: When times are rough, Bezos doesn't talk about willpower or pushing through. He reframes where stress actually comes from. "I find if I'm stressed about something, it's usually because I'm not doing anything about it,"...

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