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Jimmy Carr just reframed having kids in a way that hits different: Everything terrible about parenting? Measurable—sleep trackers scream it, calendars show missed friends/TV. Everything great? Immeasurable: the smile, the connection, the quiet knowing you mattered to someone forever. It's resume points vs eulogy points. We grind for the...

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