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Lewis Howes asked Macken Murphy a great question: How do you actually know when someone is truly in love with you? Macken (drawing from the work of world-renowned anthropologist Helen Fisher) gave a clear answer: the strongest sign is obsessive thinking. You can’t stop thinking about them. Their car...

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Look, i am a big believer in "You Like What You Like" and there truly is someone for everyone, but stop telling me about having the best bodies when we can see way more women like these than the nice shaped ones in the drawings! also, why do black women take way more photos from behind them than in front of them? They love showing off their natural curves no matter how bad they look but they are not as willing to display their natural curles in their hair! Why is that?

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Kate Shelor

576,928 просмотров • 2 месяцев назад

I love Jimin and Namjoon’s bond, for so many reasons. When you look at them, you can feel and see how carefree Namjoon becomes beside Jimin. There is something freeing about the way he smiles, laughs, and even moves when Jimin is next to him. And the way his playfulness shows around Jimin… I cannot explain how much I love seeing it. Nothing extra, nothing forced, just him. We all have that one friend who makes us feel safe enough to simply be ourselves without judgement. Someone you do not have to overthink around. Someone who lets you breathe and live in the moment. Their eye contact, their laughter, their smiles… it feels like Jimin gives Namjoon a gentle nod that says “you are doing just fine.” And just like that, you can almost feel the tension leaving his shoulders. When Namjoon said Jimin is family and that he loves him, you can see he meant every word. It is a found family that helps you feel more like yourself. A bond built over years of supporting each other, surviving hardships, and understanding each other without needing to speak. Eyes do not lie, and theirs never have. I love their connection because it reminds you of the kind of friendship that anchors you, frees you, and lets you be human. It makes me grateful that through every step and every difficult moment, they had each other.
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I love Jimin and Namjoon’s bond, for so many reasons. When you look at them, you can feel and see how carefree Namjoon becomes beside Jimin. There is something freeing about the way he smiles, laughs, and even moves when Jimin is next to him. And the way his playfulness shows around Jimin… I cannot explain how much I love seeing it. Nothing extra, nothing forced, just him. We all have that one friend who makes us feel safe enough to simply be ourselves without judgement. Someone you do not have to overthink around. Someone who lets you breathe and live in the moment. Their eye contact, their laughter, their smiles… it feels like Jimin gives Namjoon a gentle nod that says “you are doing just fine.” And just like that, you can almost feel the tension leaving his shoulders. When Namjoon said Jimin is family and that he loves him, you can see he meant every word. It is a found family that helps you feel more like yourself. A bond built over years of supporting each other, surviving hardships, and understanding each other without needing to speak. Eyes do not lie, and theirs never have. I love their connection because it reminds you of the kind of friendship that anchors you, frees you, and lets you be human. It makes me grateful that through every step and every difficult moment, they had each other.

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83,375 просмотров • 8 месяцев назад

The German word sonder can give you an extreme competitive advantage in life. It means this: every person you pass on the street has the same complexity of life that you do. Their own love interests, their own family, their own concentric rings of relationships and history radiating out from them. Most of the time we just walk by people like they’re objects in our field of vision. Sonder is the practice of actually feeling that about the people around you. The paradox is that the more you dial into that, the less significant you feel, nd the less significant you feel, the happier you get. The moment you make everything about yourself, you stop getting satisfied. But when you realize you’re just another cog in the wheel doing your best alongside everyone else doing theirs, people sense it. People will relax around you. That’s when real connection happens.
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The German word sonder can give you an extreme competitive advantage in life. It means this: every person you pass on the street has the same complexity of life that you do. Their own love interests, their own family, their own concentric rings of relationships and history radiating out from them. Most of the time we just walk by people like they’re objects in our field of vision. Sonder is the practice of actually feeling that about the people around you. The paradox is that the more you dial into that, the less significant you feel, nd the less significant you feel, the happier you get. The moment you make everything about yourself, you stop getting satisfied. But when you realize you’re just another cog in the wheel doing your best alongside everyone else doing theirs, people sense it. People will relax around you. That’s when real connection happens.

Anthony Scaramucci

31,827 просмотров • 1 месяц назад

2 things happened this week… a good friend sadly had to put their lovely family dog down and someone told me there was no way they would ever get a dog because they were… “too much work”. It made me think about how much we love our Winnie. You start by getting a dog and think that you’re looking after them but the truth is they care for you. Dogs don’t worry about yesterday or tomorrow - they are kings and queens of living in the moment. ‘Pets’ doesn’t really cover it… they are teachers… they are friends. They mirror you. Their fear grows when yours does. When you are steady, they are at peace and, when something good happens… they’ll celebrate like it’s the best thing in the world. Your dog knows the sound of you coming home, they learn your walk, the rhythm of your laugh and the moment your heart sinks… you are their everything. You are not just their owner… you make them feel safe, you are their routine… you are what home feels like. Every walk is more than exercise… it is precious time with their favourite person. One day… you won’t hear them rushing when you arrrive to show you how much they love having you around. I am not looking forward to that day 💔 You are not just a part of their life… you are their life.
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2 things happened this week… a good friend sadly had to put their lovely family dog down and someone told me there was no way they would ever get a dog because they were… “too much work”. It made me think about how much we love our Winnie. You start by getting a dog and think that you’re looking after them but the truth is they care for you. Dogs don’t worry about yesterday or tomorrow - they are kings and queens of living in the moment. ‘Pets’ doesn’t really cover it… they are teachers… they are friends. They mirror you. Their fear grows when yours does. When you are steady, they are at peace and, when something good happens… they’ll celebrate like it’s the best thing in the world. Your dog knows the sound of you coming home, they learn your walk, the rhythm of your laugh and the moment your heart sinks… you are their everything. You are not just their owner… you make them feel safe, you are their routine… you are what home feels like. Every walk is more than exercise… it is precious time with their favourite person. One day… you won’t hear them rushing when you arrrive to show you how much they love having you around. I am not looking forward to that day 💔 You are not just a part of their life… you are their life.

Dan Walker

185,761 просмотров • 5 месяцев назад

The thing with love is that logic goes out of the window. More so for women. A woman who is in love and can afford to love will even disown her own family just to be with the man she loves. Find someone you love deeply and loves you deeply, marry them and it won’t matter who does what. Everyday it will be 100 and how it is split won’t matter. If you have to rationalise it and find causes for love, or even worse, if you can rationalise it at all and have a cause, then what you have is like any other legal contract or partnership. While mutual understanding and compatibility is important, an inexplainable emotional attachment to each other is more important. This is the only reason you’ll forgive without an explicit apology. And marriage would become an unavoidable bureaucratic process to formalise an already existing union, not the definition of a partnership. I stand corrected, but if you can answer the question of "Why do you love me?", then you don’t love them.
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The thing with love is that logic goes out of the window. More so for women. A woman who is in love and can afford to love will even disown her own family just to be with the man she loves. Find someone you love deeply and loves you deeply, marry them and it won’t matter who does what. Everyday it will be 100 and how it is split won’t matter. If you have to rationalise it and find causes for love, or even worse, if you can rationalise it at all and have a cause, then what you have is like any other legal contract or partnership. While mutual understanding and compatibility is important, an inexplainable emotional attachment to each other is more important. This is the only reason you’ll forgive without an explicit apology. And marriage would become an unavoidable bureaucratic process to formalise an already existing union, not the definition of a partnership. I stand corrected, but if you can answer the question of "Why do you love me?", then you don’t love them.

Ben X

40,503 просмотров • 8 месяцев назад

“Lips in the Zipped Jacket” He said, “I have been hurt before and don’t trust easily. But there’s something about you that I can’t seem to ignore. Who are you, and where did you come from suddenly?” It’s like you just appeared in front of me and left me confused and dazed at the same time. May I ask your name? She said, “No need to tell you who I am, because my heart belongs to someone special.” He said, “Are you married?” She said, “No, but I am emotionally unavailable to give you anything because the heart that beats in my chest belongs to someone else.” He asked her, “And does this someone else feel the same way about you?” She paused and answered, “That’s private information I am unwilling to divulge. But all I know is that I wake up thinking about him and go to sleep thinking about him. Sometimes I see myself cuddling with him, and when I’m alone I feel his spirit near me.” He said, “That sounds like infatuated love.” She said, “Infatuated love is conditional, and it fades when the feeling is only temporary. But my heart has settled comfortably with this love.” He said, “Allow me to love you and show you real love.” She said, “There’s no such thing as real love. Like beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, love can only be felt in the chest, that it beats. And sometimes you just don’t know why it beats the way it does.” He said, “If this is true, then give me a chance and let me love you. And all you have to do is wake up every day to be loved.” She said, “I am already loved.” He asked, “Who is this man who has captured your heart?” She said, “My heart belongs to the one who likes to hide his lips in his zipped jacket.” He said, “He is surely blessed.” She said, “No… maybe I am the blessed one.” He said, “No, trust me. He is blessed to have a loyal woman.” Song written by: Lily C. Alphonsis, PhD Video credit: Incomparable Lily
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“Lips in the Zipped Jacket” He said, “I have been hurt before and don’t trust easily. But there’s something about you that I can’t seem to ignore. Who are you, and where did you come from suddenly?” It’s like you just appeared in front of me and left me confused and dazed at the same time. May I ask your name? She said, “No need to tell you who I am, because my heart belongs to someone special.” He said, “Are you married?” She said, “No, but I am emotionally unavailable to give you anything because the heart that beats in my chest belongs to someone else.” He asked her, “And does this someone else feel the same way about you?” She paused and answered, “That’s private information I am unwilling to divulge. But all I know is that I wake up thinking about him and go to sleep thinking about him. Sometimes I see myself cuddling with him, and when I’m alone I feel his spirit near me.” He said, “That sounds like infatuated love.” She said, “Infatuated love is conditional, and it fades when the feeling is only temporary. But my heart has settled comfortably with this love.” He said, “Allow me to love you and show you real love.” She said, “There’s no such thing as real love. Like beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, love can only be felt in the chest, that it beats. And sometimes you just don’t know why it beats the way it does.” He said, “If this is true, then give me a chance and let me love you. And all you have to do is wake up every day to be loved.” She said, “I am already loved.” He asked, “Who is this man who has captured your heart?” She said, “My heart belongs to the one who likes to hide his lips in his zipped jacket.” He said, “He is surely blessed.” She said, “No… maybe I am the blessed one.” He said, “No, trust me. He is blessed to have a loyal woman.” Song written by: Lily C. Alphonsis, PhD Video credit: Incomparable Lily

World Movie Awards (WMAs)

174,759 просмотров • 5 месяцев назад