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This is the normal evolution of human attraction over a lifespan. Most men do not spend their entire lives looking at women through the adolescent lens of “hot, want sex, must act.” Physical beauty may initiate attention, no one argues against that, but mature attraction becomes increasingly selective, contextual, and integrated with compatibility and trust. The human brain evolved far beyond a simple stimulus response mating system. Men are capable of discernment, pair bonding, devotion, and long term preference formation. A woman’s appearance does not exist in isolation from her character, intelligence, temperament, behavior, or the meaning she holds in his life. In an emotionally developed man, desire becomes organized around the whole person rather than endlessly triggered by every attractive female body in his visual field. A man who remains permanently governed by novelty and immediate visual appetite is not displaying some profound truth about male nature. He is displaying weak inhibition, poor psychological development, or a deliberate refusal to evolve beyond its most primitive layer. I’d seriously caution anyone against listening to men who claim men continue behaving like lustful bots after 25ish. Most psychologically healthy men mature out of chimp mating behaviors because engaging that way requires them to keep choosing the chaos and immaturity, long after they have enough life experience to know better.

Briana Theroux

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it is such a horrible age to find love. the terminal blackpill of the modern mating market, where the once noble quest for pair bonding has been reduced to a grotesque carnival of dysgenic hypergamy. The average Western female arrives with a double or triple digit body count, her pair bonding circuitry fried beyond repair, every first experience already auctioned off to a rotating cast of transient high T invaders often the darker, more impulsive phenotypes she chases during her peak fertility years while pureblood European men are busy building civilization. She has been turned out like a communal sleeve in every port, emotionally bankrupt, novelty extinct. All that remains is the hypergamous cash out: the quiet search for a high earning beta provider who will finance the residual lifestyle after the real action has already been extracted by the lower races and the local degenerates. Men have always been the more romantic sex the builders of cathedrals, the writers of sonnets, the ones who still believe in exclusive devotion. That is why the betrayal cuts to the bone when you finally locate what appears to be a “nice girl,” only to discover she has been passed around the underclass and the party circuit like a crack den pipe, her womb already colonized by foreign seed, her soul hollowed out by the relentless upward only filtration of female hypergamy
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it is such a horrible age to find love. the terminal blackpill of the modern mating market, where the once noble quest for pair bonding has been reduced to a grotesque carnival of dysgenic hypergamy. The average Western female arrives with a double or triple digit body count, her pair bonding circuitry fried beyond repair, every first experience already auctioned off to a rotating cast of transient high T invaders often the darker, more impulsive phenotypes she chases during her peak fertility years while pureblood European men are busy building civilization. She has been turned out like a communal sleeve in every port, emotionally bankrupt, novelty extinct. All that remains is the hypergamous cash out: the quiet search for a high earning beta provider who will finance the residual lifestyle after the real action has already been extracted by the lower races and the local degenerates. Men have always been the more romantic sex the builders of cathedrals, the writers of sonnets, the ones who still believe in exclusive devotion. That is why the betrayal cuts to the bone when you finally locate what appears to be a “nice girl,” only to discover she has been passed around the underclass and the party circuit like a crack den pipe, her womb already colonized by foreign seed, her soul hollowed out by the relentless upward only filtration of female hypergamy

Djinnt

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This is actually a pretty good description of (some) things that will get girls chasing you. (While you generally don’t want to listen to female dating advice for men, a woman simply DESCRIBING what men have done with her that worked can be very informative.) In this case, the guy was using: ✅ Confident, self-possessed body language. She doesn’t say it, but I guarantee you he had great posture, moved slowly and deliberately but smoothly, and took up space. Doubtless had excellent eye contact. ✅ At some point (ONCE he had her INVESTED enough) he asked her if she thought he was ‘hot’. This was deep in the second date, probably after some good bonding or connection so she doesn’t want to burst the bubble by saying something other than ‘yes’. What this did was trigger a psychological concept called COMMITMENT-CONSISTENCY where, once someone has verbally agreed to something, that person then feels compelled to act in-line with it, and even reorients his or her views to match what was said. (You can read about this in Robert Cialdini’s book “Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion”, where he has a ton more studies + examples.) ✅ Once he had her out the third time, he could tell she wasn’t into him enough yet, but was invested enough to have come out multiple times, so he just hung back and gave her space to chase. What happens when she chases? Well, that is simple enough: she starts to like you more (then more!). (Also, you might think his dogged follow up of her was ‘chasing’, especially if you are the type who only texts a girl once or twice then quits if she isn’t all about it… however: there is a right way and a wrong way to follow up doggedly. The fact that this guy got another date and she started chasing him tells you he did it the right way. The right way is ‘persistence’, rather than ‘pursuit’.) A lot of guys now don’t use (or know) game at all… they’re just totally winging it on “does she instantly feel me or not?” You may not believe it until you try it for yourself, but yeah, there is a reason men have been doing this stuff with women since Ovid’s time and before… probably since long before recorded history. If you want her to CHASE, you need to get her invested enough to be willing to — then, after that, you must create the SPACE for her to chase you in!

Girls Chase 🏃‍♀️💨

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