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Most of us think we’re setting boundaries… but we’re actually just making requests. Dr. Becky Kennedy explains the crucial difference: A real boundary isn’t telling someone else what to do. It’s clearly stating what you will do if the behavior continues. Example: Instead of repeatedly saying “turn off the...

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Your kid “never listens”? Dr. Becky Kennedy says you’re probably not setting a boundary — you’re making a request. She used her own son as an example: he kept pressing every button in their NYC elevator. She’d stand there saying “Don’t press the buttons!” over and over… and he’d do it anyway. Then she realized the mistake. A true boundary isn’t “please don’t do that.” It’s “I will stand between you and the buttons. If you lunge, I will block you.” No negotiation. No pleading. Just clear action from the parent. That single shift stopped the power struggle instantly. Have you ever caught yourself thinking your child “never listens,” only to realize you were making repeated requests instead of setting an actual boundary?
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Your kid “never listens”? Dr. Becky Kennedy says you’re probably not setting a boundary — you’re making a request. She used her own son as an example: he kept pressing every button in their NYC elevator. She’d stand there saying “Don’t press the buttons!” over and over… and he’d do it anyway. Then she realized the mistake. A true boundary isn’t “please don’t do that.” It’s “I will stand between you and the buttons. If you lunge, I will block you.” No negotiation. No pleading. Just clear action from the parent. That single shift stopped the power struggle instantly. Have you ever caught yourself thinking your child “never listens,” only to realize you were making repeated requests instead of setting an actual boundary?

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Dr. Becky Kennedy just redefined boundaries in one crystal-clear sentence that changes everything: “A boundary is something you tell someone you will do — and it requires the other person to do nothing.” In this 1:10 clip she explains why telling your kid “don’t jump on the couch” or your mother-in-law “call before coming over” isn’t actually a boundary — it’s a request that puts the power in their hands. Real example she gives: “Hey, I’ve asked you many times to call before stopping by. The next time you come unannounced, I will come to the car and say, ‘No, I can’t have you here for a visit.’ I hope it doesn’t get to that, but that’s what I’m going to do.” The moment you shift from “you stop” to “I will do this,” you take your power back. No more waiting for someone else to respect your “boundary.” You decide what you’ll do — and you follow through. Mind blown? What’s one “boundary” you’ve been trying to set that’s actually just a request — and how could you rephrase it as an “I will” statement?
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Dr. Becky Kennedy just redefined boundaries in one crystal-clear sentence that changes everything: “A boundary is something you tell someone you will do — and it requires the other person to do nothing.” In this 1:10 clip she explains why telling your kid “don’t jump on the couch” or your mother-in-law “call before coming over” isn’t actually a boundary — it’s a request that puts the power in their hands. Real example she gives: “Hey, I’ve asked you many times to call before stopping by. The next time you come unannounced, I will come to the car and say, ‘No, I can’t have you here for a visit.’ I hope it doesn’t get to that, but that’s what I’m going to do.” The moment you shift from “you stop” to “I will do this,” you take your power back. No more waiting for someone else to respect your “boundary.” You decide what you’ll do — and you follow through. Mind blown? What’s one “boundary” you’ve been trying to set that’s actually just a request — and how could you rephrase it as an “I will” statement?

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Dr. Becky Kennedy just reframed boundaries vs. requests in the most eye-opening way: A boundary is something you do — it requires the other person to do nothing. Her elevator example with her young son pressing every button: - Saying “Don’t press the buttons!” → not a boundary, just a request he ignores. - Actual boundary: “When we get in the elevator, I’m going to stand between you and the buttons. If you lunge forward, I will block your body.” No negotiation. No begging. No “why don’t you listen?” meltdowns. She handles it calmly, consistently — and the button-pressing stops. Same with TV: Instead of “Give me the remote… give me the remote…”, set the boundary early: “When screen time ends, I will take the remote.” The result? No power struggles. No empty threats. No one suffers except the boundary itself being enforced. Parenting hack: Stop asking. Start acting. 1:30 clip embedded — her calm clarity makes it click instantly.
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Dr. Becky Kennedy just reframed boundaries vs. requests in the most eye-opening way: A boundary is something you do — it requires the other person to do nothing. Her elevator example with her young son pressing every button: - Saying “Don’t press the buttons!” → not a boundary, just a request he ignores. - Actual boundary: “When we get in the elevator, I’m going to stand between you and the buttons. If you lunge forward, I will block your body.” No negotiation. No begging. No “why don’t you listen?” meltdowns. She handles it calmly, consistently — and the button-pressing stops. Same with TV: Instead of “Give me the remote… give me the remote…”, set the boundary early: “When screen time ends, I will take the remote.” The result? No power struggles. No empty threats. No one suffers except the boundary itself being enforced. Parenting hack: Stop asking. Start acting. 1:30 clip embedded — her calm clarity makes it click instantly.

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“Stop criticizing your partner. Start praising what you actually like.” Whitney Cummings had a really practical take on Chris Williamson’s podcast. She said we’ve gotten too quick to nitpick and roast each other, but rarely use positive reinforcement. Her suggestion (learned from training animals): Instead of fighting or complaining, try saying things like “God, I love it when you come home and you’re just here, barefoot on the couch. It’s the sexiest thing.” Amplify what you do like and watch how fast behavior can shift. Crazy stat that backs her up: John Gottman’s research shows happy couples maintain a 5:1 ratio of positive to negative interactions. When it drops below that during conflict, the relationship is in serious trouble. We’re in a culture that confuses constant criticism with “being real,” but appreciation is often the more powerful (and kinder) way to influence someone you love. Have you tried praising the behavior you want instead of criticizing what you don’t? Did it actually shift anything?
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“Stop criticizing your partner. Start praising what you actually like.” Whitney Cummings had a really practical take on Chris Williamson’s podcast. She said we’ve gotten too quick to nitpick and roast each other, but rarely use positive reinforcement. Her suggestion (learned from training animals): Instead of fighting or complaining, try saying things like “God, I love it when you come home and you’re just here, barefoot on the couch. It’s the sexiest thing.” Amplify what you do like and watch how fast behavior can shift. Crazy stat that backs her up: John Gottman’s research shows happy couples maintain a 5:1 ratio of positive to negative interactions. When it drops below that during conflict, the relationship is in serious trouble. We’re in a culture that confuses constant criticism with “being real,” but appreciation is often the more powerful (and kinder) way to influence someone you love. Have you tried praising the behavior you want instead of criticizing what you don’t? Did it actually shift anything?

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🚨WATCH: Democrat SHORT-CIRCUITS after I ask him a simple question: “Do you think illegal and legal immigration are the same?” If you can’t clearly explain the difference, you don’t actually know what you support. Democrats keep arguing off vibes and slogans instead of definitions, and when pressed on basics, the position collapses in real time.

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What Jealousy Is Really Telling You That tight, hot rush of jealousy — most of us just want it to go away fast. But what if it’s actually trying to tell you something useful? When you pause and get curious instead of fighting it, the feeling can turn into deeper connection and self-awareness. This is a calm, honest conversation about why jealousy isn’t the enemy and how to work with it in any relationship.

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Chamath says there's no such thing as failure, because no one is actually thinking about you "There is no failure. That is what other people think of you to keep you down." "If you were left on an island and it happened, you would just brush it off and move on. It's everybody else that you think is judging you." "But here's the secret: they don't give a fuck about you. They are living their own lives." "So it's your perception of what they think of you. There is no failure. There is do and learn, do and learn, do and learn."

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Dr. Becky Kennedy flipped how I think about kids’ meltdowns and frustration She says true resilience isn’t avoiding hard things, it’s learning to tolerate them. When your toddler is losing it over a puzzle and begging “do it for me,” that’s actually your Super Bowl moment as a parent. Those are the times you’re wiring their nervous system for how they’ll handle life later. Her line that stuck with me: “A parent’s words become a child’s self-talk.” This one really made me pause. I’ve jumped in too fast to fix frustration instead of sitting with it. Being the “dimmer switch” for big emotions instead of the off switch feels like such a better approach. We’re not raising kids for an easy life. We’re raising them to handle a hard one. The small moments of tolerated discomfort build real strength. Have you caught yourself rescuing your kid from frustration too quickly, or are you learning to sit with it?

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. Naval: I don’t think you need to have a PhD to be a scientist. If you are naturally curious and you’re rigorous and you discover new things, you’re a scientist. One of my Twitter quips was, “The only true test of intelligence is if you get what you want out of life,” and that triggers a lot of people. But how else do you know? How else do you know if you’re smart? If you’re not getting what you want out of life, how smart are you really? You might have had bad luck once upon a time, but consistently, every time? I doubt it. And there’s two parts to that. One is actually testing yourself against the world to see if you get what you want. And the other is wanting the right things in the first place. You know, I wish I was 20 years old and had wings. Umm, not gonna happen. So you gotta wish for the right things too.

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When your kid screams “I HATE YOU”… the most powerful move is often doing absolutely nothing. Becky Kennedy (parenting expert): If you fire back (“Go to your room!” or “I hate you too!”) you just volley the energy right back — ping-pong match starts. When you stay sturdy and say nothing, the rude words just sit there between you. They’re far more likely to re-own it and feel the weight of what they just said. Silence creates space for natural consequences and self-reflection — kids learn faster when they can’t blame-shift or escalate. Parents: Have you tried the “do nothing” response to rudeness / backtalk? Did it feel impossible at first… or did it actually work better than yelling? Your real experiences 👇

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The world's parenting expert on the skills you need but were never taught! In today's episode, Dr. Becky Kennedy shares insights on your relationship with your partner, regulating your emotions, setting screen time boundaries, and how parents get in the way. The most surprising thing about this episode was how much of what we discussed applies to EVERY relationship in your life ... your partner, your kids, your colleagues, your customers. Get ready to frame things differently, repair after a disagreement, the three steps you need to regulate emotions and unlock the next level in all your relationships. Listen and Learn 👉

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Dads: watch this video This is what I mean when I talk about the importance of the words you use your kids Everybody likes to say “actions speak louder than words!” And “your kids watch what you do not what you say” And while that’s mostly true, I like to think about it differently Words and actions both matter They’re separate but complimentary instruments in your symphony of parenting Actions give your kids something to model But the words of a father take on the weight of destiny

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🐻: a [life] tip for someone turning 20? well… this is more of a lifelong tip than specifically for your 20s, but you have to life doing all the things you want! of course we can’t always be only doing the things that we want, but whenever possible, try turning the things you do into what you wanna do or doing the things that are actually aligned with what you like. i think it’d be good to fill in your life with the things you wanna do as much as possible 🐻: would life become more enjoyable once i turn 30? hmm, nope! [now that i think about it,] it wasn’t turning 30 that was important for me. i just happened to find my turning point and felt better in my 30s, but if it’s not the case for you, i think life turns more enjoyable the moment you make up your mind and determination. though it just sounds like a mere mindset difference, isn’t that the hardest part? it’s definitely not easy 🐻: “can you tell me that i’m doing well?”—you’re doing well! but i don’t think me telling you those words is what’s important because won’t it truly be more meaningful if it’s you who lives believing in your own self? i’ve also come to live that way now, though i know that’s something really hard to do… but still, i realised that’s the best way. making even a slight shift to our mindset’s so hard, isn’t it? 🐻: “what should i do if i don’t have confidence?”—keep doing it until you have that confidence or try your best to put aside all the reasons you’re unconfident. you’ll surely gain confidence that way, though of course, support from the people around you helps with confidence boost too. for example, i initially started believing that i might actually be better than how i viewed myself because my days believe in me, but in the long run, i have to be the one building my own confidence up. i think it’s most important that you recognise and validate your own self in the end! 🐻: “i’m afraid of the future”—you can be. i think i’ve said this before, but nothing changes even if we’re afraid. if you’re afraid of something that’s inevitably gonna happen, contemplating about it allows for good preemptive measures instead, but for all those minor worries? i think it’s better to take action after those things do happen, since i heard 90% of the things we worry about won’t actually happen. it’ll be okay, i believe
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🐻: a [life] tip for someone turning 20? well… this is more of a lifelong tip than specifically for your 20s, but you have to life doing all the things you want! of course we can’t always be only doing the things that we want, but whenever possible, try turning the things you do into what you wanna do or doing the things that are actually aligned with what you like. i think it’d be good to fill in your life with the things you wanna do as much as possible 🐻: would life become more enjoyable once i turn 30? hmm, nope! [now that i think about it,] it wasn’t turning 30 that was important for me. i just happened to find my turning point and felt better in my 30s, but if it’s not the case for you, i think life turns more enjoyable the moment you make up your mind and determination. though it just sounds like a mere mindset difference, isn’t that the hardest part? it’s definitely not easy 🐻: “can you tell me that i’m doing well?”—you’re doing well! but i don’t think me telling you those words is what’s important because won’t it truly be more meaningful if it’s you who lives believing in your own self? i’ve also come to live that way now, though i know that’s something really hard to do… but still, i realised that’s the best way. making even a slight shift to our mindset’s so hard, isn’t it? 🐻: “what should i do if i don’t have confidence?”—keep doing it until you have that confidence or try your best to put aside all the reasons you’re unconfident. you’ll surely gain confidence that way, though of course, support from the people around you helps with confidence boost too. for example, i initially started believing that i might actually be better than how i viewed myself because my days believe in me, but in the long run, i have to be the one building my own confidence up. i think it’s most important that you recognise and validate your own self in the end! 🐻: “i’m afraid of the future”—you can be. i think i’ve said this before, but nothing changes even if we’re afraid. if you’re afraid of something that’s inevitably gonna happen, contemplating about it allows for good preemptive measures instead, but for all those minor worries? i think it’s better to take action after those things do happen, since i heard 90% of the things we worry about won’t actually happen. it’ll be okay, i believe

𝙢𝙜𝙙𝙣𝙙𝙨

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What do you do when you are at the gym trying to get it in and someone comes up to you claiming you’ve been on the machine long enough? Do you get off? These gym Karen’s are getting bolder and bolder everyday. I’ve been there before trying to do a superset and I leave a place holder like a towel on the seat while I get a drink of water and I come back and somebody is already using the machine, like they have no common sense or any idea of gym etiquette. Would you ask them to get off the machine if you were using it before them? Or is it like finders keepers, I would like to know what I should do.
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What do you do when you are at the gym trying to get it in and someone comes up to you claiming you’ve been on the machine long enough? Do you get off? These gym Karen’s are getting bolder and bolder everyday. I’ve been there before trying to do a superset and I leave a place holder like a towel on the seat while I get a drink of water and I come back and somebody is already using the machine, like they have no common sense or any idea of gym etiquette. Would you ask them to get off the machine if you were using it before them? Or is it like finders keepers, I would like to know what I should do.

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Zendaya reveals what she wishes she could inherit from Tom Holland. Zendaya: “I think something I’m always impressed with Tom about, which I feel like I want to inherit more of, is that he’s very… I don’t know how to… What’s the word? Tom Holland: “Awesome. Legendary. Fantastic. Talented.” Zendaya: “Yes, so many great words. But you really stand on your big stickler for respect and kindness. Not to say that I’m not doing that, but you’re just super respectful. You make sure that that is in the front. And then if that line is crossed, I think sometimes you’re better at drawing boundaries and making things clear. I’m a little bit more like, ‘Okay guys, it’s alright. Everything’s alright.’ You’re good at being like, ‘No, no. This is… we’re not doing this.’” Host: “Setting the boundaries when they need to be set.” Zendaya: “Really clearly. Really strong. And I’m kind of like, ‘I’ll put the boundaries like, hey guys, can we just… if that’s okay, if I can just put the boundaries, that would be good. Okay, we’re good. We’re good.’ So I like that you really know what you feel is right for yourself, and you do it. And for others, you’re very protective in that way.” Tom Holland: “Thank you. I appreciate that.”
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Zendaya reveals what she wishes she could inherit from Tom Holland. Zendaya: “I think something I’m always impressed with Tom about, which I feel like I want to inherit more of, is that he’s very… I don’t know how to… What’s the word? Tom Holland: “Awesome. Legendary. Fantastic. Talented.” Zendaya: “Yes, so many great words. But you really stand on your big stickler for respect and kindness. Not to say that I’m not doing that, but you’re just super respectful. You make sure that that is in the front. And then if that line is crossed, I think sometimes you’re better at drawing boundaries and making things clear. I’m a little bit more like, ‘Okay guys, it’s alright. Everything’s alright.’ You’re good at being like, ‘No, no. This is… we’re not doing this.’” Host: “Setting the boundaries when they need to be set.” Zendaya: “Really clearly. Really strong. And I’m kind of like, ‘I’ll put the boundaries like, hey guys, can we just… if that’s okay, if I can just put the boundaries, that would be good. Okay, we’re good. We’re good.’ So I like that you really know what you feel is right for yourself, and you do it. And for others, you’re very protective in that way.” Tom Holland: “Thank you. I appreciate that.”

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Bear Bronson tells us the process of getting signed by TNA “I was just doing what I was doing and you learn in wrestling to, if you hear rumblings of something, you just take it with a grain of salt and you don’t get over excited about things. ‘Cause I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard something and it’s never happened. So you get your hopes up, you get your hopes up and it just doesn’t happen. You learn over time, okay, if you hear something cool, you’re just, ‘Cool, that sounds cool. But if it happens, cool.’”
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Bear Bronson tells us the process of getting signed by TNA “I was just doing what I was doing and you learn in wrestling to, if you hear rumblings of something, you just take it with a grain of salt and you don’t get over excited about things. ‘Cause I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard something and it’s never happened. So you get your hopes up, you get your hopes up and it just doesn’t happen. You learn over time, okay, if you hear something cool, you’re just, ‘Cool, that sounds cool. But if it happens, cool.’”

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"You can either produce excellence or you can avoid criticism. But you cannot do both of those. The reason that you don't have certain excellence that you want is because you are afraid of getting criticized. You are afraid of the judgment that comes with it. You are afraid of standing out. You are afraid of being alone. You are afraid of people looking at you. You are worried about what people think of you. There are 2 categories of things in this world: 1) Things that are up to you 2) Things that are not up to you Which category does your reputation sit in? Your reputation is not up to you. I'm the one who associates your reputation with something, not you. You just do things. What's up to you? How you act. Your decisions. Your actions. That is up to you. Your reputation is not up to you. Here's how I know that: You all have a reputation about me and it's not in my control. I get to say and do whatever I say and do up here. I am in control of saying it. I am in control of doing it. The moment words leave my lips, who has control over what is done with those words? You! You are in control of what you think of me. And there's no way everybody in this room is going to think the exact same thing about me. No way. When it comes to exceptional, what we've got to understand is you can spend your whole life trying to avoid criticism and earn reputation, and it still won't be in your control. We can waste a lot of time missing out on excellence we could have been producing if we were just simply LESS trying to engineer what we wanted other people to think about us."
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"You can either produce excellence or you can avoid criticism. But you cannot do both of those. The reason that you don't have certain excellence that you want is because you are afraid of getting criticized. You are afraid of the judgment that comes with it. You are afraid of standing out. You are afraid of being alone. You are afraid of people looking at you. You are worried about what people think of you. There are 2 categories of things in this world: 1) Things that are up to you 2) Things that are not up to you Which category does your reputation sit in? Your reputation is not up to you. I'm the one who associates your reputation with something, not you. You just do things. What's up to you? How you act. Your decisions. Your actions. That is up to you. Your reputation is not up to you. Here's how I know that: You all have a reputation about me and it's not in my control. I get to say and do whatever I say and do up here. I am in control of saying it. I am in control of doing it. The moment words leave my lips, who has control over what is done with those words? You! You are in control of what you think of me. And there's no way everybody in this room is going to think the exact same thing about me. No way. When it comes to exceptional, what we've got to understand is you can spend your whole life trying to avoid criticism and earn reputation, and it still won't be in your control. We can waste a lot of time missing out on excellence we could have been producing if we were just simply LESS trying to engineer what we wanted other people to think about us."

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PabloReports: What do you make of artists dropping out of the 250th anniversary? He seems like he can’t book anybody. Gallego: Well, look, if this was actually about the 250th anniversary and the president not trying to make it political and part of an extension of MAGA, I think you’d have a lot of artists who would actually participate. Because I think our artists love our country and want to contribute to a great celebration. The fact is, the president messed up and made this political. And by making it about him instead of making it about the country, a lot of them just felt uncomfortable about that.
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PabloReports: What do you make of artists dropping out of the 250th anniversary? He seems like he can’t book anybody. Gallego: Well, look, if this was actually about the 250th anniversary and the president not trying to make it political and part of an extension of MAGA, I think you’d have a lot of artists who would actually participate. Because I think our artists love our country and want to contribute to a great celebration. The fact is, the president messed up and made this political. And by making it about him instead of making it about the country, a lot of them just felt uncomfortable about that.

Acyn

178,153 görüntüleme • 2 ay önce

"How else will you know what setup works when if you don't do the study? Most people just jump in, they follow some random people on the internet who have no clue what they're doing...how many people study, go back and actually study how stocks move, what they move on? That's your edge, you do something differently, something that 99% of other people are not willing to do and you will have different results than those people, that's the whole point." "Exactly, you get a completely new perspective, and it gives you conviction. And suddenly you won't need discipline and all these other stupid things, you don't need to be meditating 3 hours per day, and other useless trading advice. You figure out what works, well guess what, then you can use whatever works, instead of jumping into the abyss with the crowd."
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"How else will you know what setup works when if you don't do the study? Most people just jump in, they follow some random people on the internet who have no clue what they're doing...how many people study, go back and actually study how stocks move, what they move on? That's your edge, you do something differently, something that 99% of other people are not willing to do and you will have different results than those people, that's the whole point." "Exactly, you get a completely new perspective, and it gives you conviction. And suddenly you won't need discipline and all these other stupid things, you don't need to be meditating 3 hours per day, and other useless trading advice. You figure out what works, well guess what, then you can use whatever works, instead of jumping into the abyss with the crowd."

Charlie M

17,859 görüntüleme • 2 yıl önce

So I’m watching the gruesome foursome do their dramatic reading of a court document, you know, those things where accuracy actually matters and right in the middle of it… Jinny Jamz hits us with, “I think Comeau broke it down…” Oh you think? Not “he said.” Not “here’s the post.” Not “let me show you.” Just vibes. Just… a feeling. Let me help you out here, Jinny If you’re going to drag someone into your analysis, there are usually a few steps involved, kind of like how I do it ...Find the thing they actually said like I just did, Read it correctly, Then respond to it. What you did was skip all three and go straight to “I vaguely remember something and I’m gonna roll with it on a livestream.” Bold strategy Cotton…And the best part? You immediately follow that up by going back to the document and acting confused about “wildly active!…while actively demonstrating what it looks like to be wildly inaccurate. This is the same crowd that lectures everyone else about “misinformation,” by the way. Meanwhile, No quote,No screenshot, No receipt and definitelyNo clue Just “I think…Newsflash Jinny, “I think” is not a source. “I remember” is not evidence. And “Comeau said it” doesn’t magically become true because it helps your confusion make sense. If you’re going to use my name to prop up your argument, at least have the decency to Back it up, Show it Or… here’s a wild idea… get it right Until then, what you’re doing isn’t analysis. It’s improv. What we just watched was Jinny in real time read a legal argument, misattributes analysis, inserts, commentary that doesn't exist Then, she mocks the very argument she doesn't even understand... All while accusing other people of pushing narratives.. You can't make this stuff up, .....but THEY CAN
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So I’m watching the gruesome foursome do their dramatic reading of a court document, you know, those things where accuracy actually matters and right in the middle of it… Jinny Jamz hits us with, “I think Comeau broke it down…” Oh you think? Not “he said.” Not “here’s the post.” Not “let me show you.” Just vibes. Just… a feeling. Let me help you out here, Jinny If you’re going to drag someone into your analysis, there are usually a few steps involved, kind of like how I do it ...Find the thing they actually said like I just did, Read it correctly, Then respond to it. What you did was skip all three and go straight to “I vaguely remember something and I’m gonna roll with it on a livestream.” Bold strategy Cotton…And the best part? You immediately follow that up by going back to the document and acting confused about “wildly active!…while actively demonstrating what it looks like to be wildly inaccurate. This is the same crowd that lectures everyone else about “misinformation,” by the way. Meanwhile, No quote,No screenshot, No receipt and definitelyNo clue Just “I think…Newsflash Jinny, “I think” is not a source. “I remember” is not evidence. And “Comeau said it” doesn’t magically become true because it helps your confusion make sense. If you’re going to use my name to prop up your argument, at least have the decency to Back it up, Show it Or… here’s a wild idea… get it right Until then, what you’re doing isn’t analysis. It’s improv. What we just watched was Jinny in real time read a legal argument, misattributes analysis, inserts, commentary that doesn't exist Then, she mocks the very argument she doesn't even understand... All while accusing other people of pushing narratives.. You can't make this stuff up, .....but THEY CAN

Dixie Normus

11,447 görüntüleme • 4 ay önce