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One danger in taking relationship advice from influencers is that their incentives differ from yours. Goodhart’s Law applies: what gets measured gets managed. For an online influencer—whether a podcaster or a writer—the metrics are obvious and ever-present. Likes, views, followers. All of it is quantifiable and displayed on a...

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There’s an iconic line from the movie Up In The Air: “How much did they pay you to give up on your dreams? And when were you going to stop and do what makes you happy?” Look, we all have bills to pay. We do what we have to do to make ends meet and put food on the table. Providing is something to be proud of, but… Don’t sacrifice your dreams along the way. Don’t wake up at 50 (or 60) and realize you’re no closer to your best life than when you started. 👉 Treat your job as a means, not an end. Slowly—over years and decades—gain more control. Become the person you are on vacation. That’s the real you. Now you’ve got a life you don’t need to escape. (P.S. I’m not talking about living a life of leisure. Humans need work and skin in the game. The goal isn’t to retire—it’s to choose your work and do it on your terms. That’s as good as it gets.)
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There’s an iconic line from the movie Up In The Air: “How much did they pay you to give up on your dreams? And when were you going to stop and do what makes you happy?” Look, we all have bills to pay. We do what we have to do to make ends meet and put food on the table. Providing is something to be proud of, but… Don’t sacrifice your dreams along the way. Don’t wake up at 50 (or 60) and realize you’re no closer to your best life than when you started. 👉 Treat your job as a means, not an end. Slowly—over years and decades—gain more control. Become the person you are on vacation. That’s the real you. Now you’ve got a life you don’t need to escape. (P.S. I’m not talking about living a life of leisure. Humans need work and skin in the game. The goal isn’t to retire—it’s to choose your work and do it on your terms. That’s as good as it gets.)

Kevin Dahlstrom

46,716 views • 2 months ago

She wants a weak man she can control 😹 ❌What she says doesn’t matter…Be in the best shape as possible Your spouse might say they love you exactly the way you are. And that’s a great thing. But that doesn’t mean your physical fitness shouldn’t matter. A strong relationship isn’t just built on emotions, loyalty, and time together. It’s also built on energy, health, confidence, and longevity. Even if your partner never pressures you to stay in shape, maintaining your fitness is still part of showing up as your best self in the relationship. When you prioritize your health, you bring more to the table. More energy to enjoy life together. More confidence in yourself. More discipline in the way you show up as a partner, a leader, and a man. Fitness also protects the future of your relationship. Taking care of your body today increases the likelihood that you’ll still be active, capable, and healthy decades from now. It means being able to travel together, stay adventurous, and avoid becoming limited by preventable health issues. And the truth is, attraction in long-term relationships isn’t just about looks. It’s about effort. When your partner sees that you care about your health, your strength, and your longevity, it reinforces that you still value yourself and the life you’re building together. Your partner may never demand that you stay fit. But the responsibility to maintain your body is still yours. Because being strong, healthy, and disciplined doesn’t just benefit you. It strengthens the quality, longevity, and vitality of the relationship you’re committed to building. 💪 via KingsofLegacies
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She wants a weak man she can control 😹 ❌What she says doesn’t matter…Be in the best shape as possible Your spouse might say they love you exactly the way you are. And that’s a great thing. But that doesn’t mean your physical fitness shouldn’t matter. A strong relationship isn’t just built on emotions, loyalty, and time together. It’s also built on energy, health, confidence, and longevity. Even if your partner never pressures you to stay in shape, maintaining your fitness is still part of showing up as your best self in the relationship. When you prioritize your health, you bring more to the table. More energy to enjoy life together. More confidence in yourself. More discipline in the way you show up as a partner, a leader, and a man. Fitness also protects the future of your relationship. Taking care of your body today increases the likelihood that you’ll still be active, capable, and healthy decades from now. It means being able to travel together, stay adventurous, and avoid becoming limited by preventable health issues. And the truth is, attraction in long-term relationships isn’t just about looks. It’s about effort. When your partner sees that you care about your health, your strength, and your longevity, it reinforces that you still value yourself and the life you’re building together. Your partner may never demand that you stay fit. But the responsibility to maintain your body is still yours. Because being strong, healthy, and disciplined doesn’t just benefit you. It strengthens the quality, longevity, and vitality of the relationship you’re committed to building. 💪 via KingsofLegacies

Larry Conger 🇺🇸

119,366 views • 5 months ago

1. Being loved at home and having a good example of love from home does not guarantee you'll get into a healthy relationship or marriage. I have said this countless times. The beauty of being loved at home is that you'll always have a good support system if things go south. But whether your relationship is beautiful or toxic is entirely up to you. Your parents chose themselves and worked through their relationship. You'll have to choose your own partner yourself and build your relationship. Your parents did not have healthy relationship because their parents had healthy relationship. They did that by themselves. Healthy relationship is not transmitted by genetics. Most people use emotions over logic and so choose nonsense. If you've been shown the liht and was taught good values, it is up you to use it to your benefit. The universe is not a reward system. Healthy relationship will not come to you simply for being a good person. You have to vet by yourself and for yourself to choose someone that is compatible with you and loves you with their life.
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1. Being loved at home and having a good example of love from home does not guarantee you'll get into a healthy relationship or marriage. I have said this countless times. The beauty of being loved at home is that you'll always have a good support system if things go south. But whether your relationship is beautiful or toxic is entirely up to you. Your parents chose themselves and worked through their relationship. You'll have to choose your own partner yourself and build your relationship. Your parents did not have healthy relationship because their parents had healthy relationship. They did that by themselves. Healthy relationship is not transmitted by genetics. Most people use emotions over logic and so choose nonsense. If you've been shown the liht and was taught good values, it is up you to use it to your benefit. The universe is not a reward system. Healthy relationship will not come to you simply for being a good person. You have to vet by yourself and for yourself to choose someone that is compatible with you and loves you with their life.

Sir Dickson

532,999 views • 2 years ago

Tony Robbins would always ask is it Your Mother or Your Father’s? And he’ll follow that up with: “Who did you have to be to receive mom or dad’s love as a kid?” And then people sit there. Some people are like… and then they have an answer, or they pop—start crying. Why is that question so powerful? One of the reasons is because “who you had to be to receive your mom and dad’s love as a kid” becomes a role that many people take on for their whole entire life. If you had to be a people-pleaser to make your dad or mom happy, you might be an adult that’s pleasing everyone, feeling drained, and carrying the burden of that. And when you get to that core, you realize that the way you relate to mom and dad becomes the standard—the lens through which you believe you relate to everybody else. So if there’s unresolved energy from childhood where you believe that, as a kid, you had to be a certain way to receive mom or dad’s love. You may assume that that’s how you need to be in order to receive anyone else’s love. So one of the most powerful things to realize is that when you begin to connect to that inner child part of you—the part of you that may have not felt seen, heard, soothed, or nurtured… Or that believed your worth was connected to what you do… you can then realize that the role you may have taken on as a child is not who you really are. It’s just a strategy to feel connected. And when you begin to see, hear, soothe, and nurture that inner child… You may then realize that you no longer have to live in that role—and that then you become free. via Aaron Doughty
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Tony Robbins would always ask is it Your Mother or Your Father’s? And he’ll follow that up with: “Who did you have to be to receive mom or dad’s love as a kid?” And then people sit there. Some people are like… and then they have an answer, or they pop—start crying. Why is that question so powerful? One of the reasons is because “who you had to be to receive your mom and dad’s love as a kid” becomes a role that many people take on for their whole entire life. If you had to be a people-pleaser to make your dad or mom happy, you might be an adult that’s pleasing everyone, feeling drained, and carrying the burden of that. And when you get to that core, you realize that the way you relate to mom and dad becomes the standard—the lens through which you believe you relate to everybody else. So if there’s unresolved energy from childhood where you believe that, as a kid, you had to be a certain way to receive mom or dad’s love. You may assume that that’s how you need to be in order to receive anyone else’s love. So one of the most powerful things to realize is that when you begin to connect to that inner child part of you—the part of you that may have not felt seen, heard, soothed, or nurtured… Or that believed your worth was connected to what you do… you can then realize that the role you may have taken on as a child is not who you really are. It’s just a strategy to feel connected. And when you begin to see, hear, soothe, and nurture that inner child… You may then realize that you no longer have to live in that role—and that then you become free. via Aaron Doughty

Larry Conger 🇺🇸

97,933 views • 5 months ago

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You were in a relationship with a woman and decided to help her open a shop. Things didn’t work out, she moved on, got married, and now you want to lock the shop or take everything back because she didn’t end up with you? That doesn’t make sense. When you were helping her, you were doing it out of love and choice. A relationship is not a business agreement where you must get a refund if it ends. If the relationship doesn’t work, both parties should move on peacefully. Some people act as if the only thing they spent was money. What about the time, emotions, sacrifices, and commitment that both people invested? Relationships are not one-sided. If you choose to support someone, do it with a good heart. Don’t use your help as a weapon later because things didn’t go your way. This kind of behavior is embarrassing and unfair. Love should not become oppression because a relationship ended. Finally the young man did what he's supposed to do anyways.

Onwa_Nnewi

26,275 views • 1 month ago

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Keeping up with your friends doesn’t have to be complicated. But that’s how it feels today on other apps when updates from your crew are buried beneath brands, influencers, and videos of strangers dancing. We believe that sharing your life with your friends should be simple and fun. Introducing Capture by amo. It’s the camera you create — made just for friends. Create your camera by choosing from a range of styles, then get on with capturing daily life how you really see it. No time to check if you look good (you look great, btw). No followers to count. And no algorithms to keep you in the app. Choose to capture in 0.5, superzoom, or frontback mode, then tilt to unveil captures in a feed that’s just for friends. Once there’s nothing new to view, Capture shuts down so that you can get off your phone. On amo, your profile, friendships, feed, and settings are shared across the apps. Trying a new amo app takes no time at all as your info (and your friends!) are already waiting for you.

amo

146,576 views • 2 years ago

SNEAKO explains the importance of HIDING your personal relationships from the public after seeing Larry Wheels and his wife ARGUING on stream 😳 "Women on social media are a MAJOR red flag. You have to keep your relationship private. Women who want to be public like that and crave attention, end up being exposed to the evil eye."
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SNEAKO explains the importance of HIDING your personal relationships from the public after seeing Larry Wheels and his wife ARGUING on stream 😳 "Women on social media are a MAJOR red flag. You have to keep your relationship private. Women who want to be public like that and crave attention, end up being exposed to the evil eye."

Daily SNEAKO

22,086 views • 6 months ago

Thomas Massie: The Epstein class is “not partisan.” “They’re not Republicans and Democrats.” “Once you have that many digits in your bank account, you don’t particularly care which party gets elected.” “Our system of justice is broken.” “If there’s two sets of rules in this country, then we don’t have a republic.” “As long as they’re coming to your island or to your dinner parties or giving $50,000 at your gala to honor one of their buddies, they don’t care.” “That’s why I think this has gone on for four administrations.” “There’s the question of, if there’s something bad about Trump in there, why didn’t Biden expose it?” “It’s because they all have the same set of billionaire friends who are what I call post-partisan.” Thomas Massie Thomas Massie for Congress
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Thomas Massie: The Epstein class is “not partisan.” “They’re not Republicans and Democrats.” “Once you have that many digits in your bank account, you don’t particularly care which party gets elected.” “Our system of justice is broken.” “If there’s two sets of rules in this country, then we don’t have a republic.” “As long as they’re coming to your island or to your dinner parties or giving $50,000 at your gala to honor one of their buddies, they don’t care.” “That’s why I think this has gone on for four administrations.” “There’s the question of, if there’s something bad about Trump in there, why didn’t Biden expose it?” “It’s because they all have the same set of billionaire friends who are what I call post-partisan.” Thomas Massie Thomas Massie for Congress

Holden Culotta

33,557 views • 3 months ago

The subject of 'owning a slave' is dense. It is something we hear a lot when we are in the FemDom Realm. Is it just fantasy? Can it actually be a lifestyle? How do we navigate this type of dynamic? How do we even get to that level of D/s? In this short clip [Exerpt from SLAVE TRAINING Part 2] I want to already bring to your attention one thing that will define if your desire for a slave (or desire as a slave) is touching more on a fantasy or... how can you actually navigate this in a realistic way. No one person 'can do it all' or should be expected to. If you want your slave to be 'the best' , assign them a specific role in which they can excel... and then build upon that. Once they 'master' your housekeeping (which takes quite a bit of real training), they can move to other levels. And an important note I want to leave here... make them EARN access to certain things in your life that sometimes you just want to delegate because you don't want to manage or don't know how to manage. Entrusting them with serious tasks that can affect your life, your business, your reputation, are on top of the ladder. Are they even qualified for the thing you want them to take off your shoulders? Start small and allow them to grow in their submission, to develop their skills and to learn how to best satisfy you without setting them up for failure by expecting too much, too quick. In the end, if you want this to truly work, you have to approach it from a place that transcends the roles. As this is consensual power exchange. And you both want to be fulfilled in that relationship.
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The subject of 'owning a slave' is dense. It is something we hear a lot when we are in the FemDom Realm. Is it just fantasy? Can it actually be a lifestyle? How do we navigate this type of dynamic? How do we even get to that level of D/s? In this short clip [Exerpt from SLAVE TRAINING Part 2] I want to already bring to your attention one thing that will define if your desire for a slave (or desire as a slave) is touching more on a fantasy or... how can you actually navigate this in a realistic way. No one person 'can do it all' or should be expected to. If you want your slave to be 'the best' , assign them a specific role in which they can excel... and then build upon that. Once they 'master' your housekeeping (which takes quite a bit of real training), they can move to other levels. And an important note I want to leave here... make them EARN access to certain things in your life that sometimes you just want to delegate because you don't want to manage or don't know how to manage. Entrusting them with serious tasks that can affect your life, your business, your reputation, are on top of the ladder. Are they even qualified for the thing you want them to take off your shoulders? Start small and allow them to grow in their submission, to develop their skills and to learn how to best satisfy you without setting them up for failure by expecting too much, too quick. In the end, if you want this to truly work, you have to approach it from a place that transcends the roles. As this is consensual power exchange. And you both want to be fulfilled in that relationship.

Ms. Malissia

12,836 views • 6 months ago

Once they can verify who you are online, they no longer need police, courts, or judges to punish you, there’s no arrest, no trial, no physical prison cell. You’re already inside the system, they just decide when to lock your cage, your bank account gets frozen, your ability to travel gets restricted, your carbon allowance runs out so you can’t buy fuel or meat, your social score drops because you said the wrong thing and suddenly you can’t buy, sell or even speak, you are cut off. This is how they skip the entire legal system and go straight to total compliance, Agenda 2030, 15-minute cities, personal carbon credits, social credit all of it becomes enforceable the second this digital ID infrastructure is in place. They’re not protecting your kids, they’re building the prison that your kids are going to grow up inside. The difference between a conspiracy theory and the truth is time and time is running out. credit Wide Awake Media Alex Newman
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Once they can verify who you are online, they no longer need police, courts, or judges to punish you, there’s no arrest, no trial, no physical prison cell. You’re already inside the system, they just decide when to lock your cage, your bank account gets frozen, your ability to travel gets restricted, your carbon allowance runs out so you can’t buy fuel or meat, your social score drops because you said the wrong thing and suddenly you can’t buy, sell or even speak, you are cut off. This is how they skip the entire legal system and go straight to total compliance, Agenda 2030, 15-minute cities, personal carbon credits, social credit all of it becomes enforceable the second this digital ID infrastructure is in place. They’re not protecting your kids, they’re building the prison that your kids are going to grow up inside. The difference between a conspiracy theory and the truth is time and time is running out. credit Wide Awake Media Alex Newman

Scott Lewis

230,206 views • 2 months ago

PlaqueBoyMax discusses the negative effects of being in a relationship while being a streamer 💔 “Relationships are things that are supposed to be intimate… honestly, Ron been said it don’t go public if you really want to be with someone. As soon as that mf is on the internet, you allow other people to affect where your relationship goes"
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PlaqueBoyMax discusses the negative effects of being in a relationship while being a streamer 💔 “Relationships are things that are supposed to be intimate… honestly, Ron been said it don’t go public if you really want to be with someone. As soon as that mf is on the internet, you allow other people to affect where your relationship goes"

PlaqueBoyMaxUpdates

84,061 views • 6 months ago

As a Twitch streamer, do you struggle with keeping your viewership up when on a BRB or Starting Soon screen? Clip reels are a perfect, fun way to keep attention. And they showcase your content. But they're a LOT of work to maintain. Well.. at least they were😎 What if you could have a simple browser source that automatically played an always-fresh clip reel? What if you could have a simple browser source that would show the clip reel of your last stream, like a "Previously On..." TV show intro? Now you can!! When you use the Highlight Hunter by FrostyTools, you find the best moments from your VOD, automatically. You can already easily turn them into Twitch clips, or download the snippets to edit for a perfect short-form video, or download entire montages of VODs to share with your community. BUT NOW, you can just grab one of two simple browser source links, to pop into your OBS or Meld Studio One of them will roll all your favorited snippets in random order, like a shuffling playlist of your best highlights. Great for BRB screens, or any time you want to entertain with your best moments. The other will play the linear montage of your latest VOD, for a "Previously On..." experience that helps catch viewers up if they missed it or forgot. Great for Starting Soon screens to seamlessly tie the streams together (and pairs great with our Showstarter chatbot feature 😉). The best part? As you continue to use the Highlight Hunter, these update automatically! New favorite snippets since last stream? They're in the reel already! Ran the Highlight Hunter on your latest VOD? Its montage will automatically play on your 'Previously On..' browser source when you start stream up next time. This is a SUPER powerful update; check it out ASAP!
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As a Twitch streamer, do you struggle with keeping your viewership up when on a BRB or Starting Soon screen? Clip reels are a perfect, fun way to keep attention. And they showcase your content. But they're a LOT of work to maintain. Well.. at least they were😎 What if you could have a simple browser source that automatically played an always-fresh clip reel? What if you could have a simple browser source that would show the clip reel of your last stream, like a "Previously On..." TV show intro? Now you can!! When you use the Highlight Hunter by FrostyTools, you find the best moments from your VOD, automatically. You can already easily turn them into Twitch clips, or download the snippets to edit for a perfect short-form video, or download entire montages of VODs to share with your community. BUT NOW, you can just grab one of two simple browser source links, to pop into your OBS or Meld Studio One of them will roll all your favorited snippets in random order, like a shuffling playlist of your best highlights. Great for BRB screens, or any time you want to entertain with your best moments. The other will play the linear montage of your latest VOD, for a "Previously On..." experience that helps catch viewers up if they missed it or forgot. Great for Starting Soon screens to seamlessly tie the streams together (and pairs great with our Showstarter chatbot feature 😉). The best part? As you continue to use the Highlight Hunter, these update automatically! New favorite snippets since last stream? They're in the reel already! Ran the Highlight Hunter on your latest VOD? Its montage will automatically play on your 'Previously On..' browser source when you start stream up next time. This is a SUPER powerful update; check it out ASAP!

Ken aka Frosty

103,009 views • 10 months ago

Q: Why is company culture important? In the clip below, a16z cofounder Ben Horowitz argues that culture drives how people in your company behave on a daily basis—and particularly, how they behave when you’re not looking. Is that phone call so important I need to return it today or can it wait until tomorrow? Can I ask for a raise before my annual review? Is the quality of this document good enough or should I keep working on it? Do I have to be on time for that meeting? Should I stay at the Four Seasons or the Red Roof Inn? Should I go home at 5 p.m. or 8 p.m.? Should we discuss the color of this new product for five minutes or thirty hours? If I know something is badly broken in the company, should I say something? Whom should I tell? Is winning more important than ethics? None of these things are in your mission statement or OKRs, but they determine many important things for your company, such as how people experience your company, what you’re like to do business with, what your company is like to work at, etc. And as Ben describes, what drives the culture is all of the little behaviors and cues people take on: “this is what I have to do to succeed in this company.” Culture can feel abstract and secondary when you pit it against a concrete result that’s right in front of you, but it’s a strategic investment in the company doing things the right way when you are not looking. It’s the set of assumptions your employees use to resolve the problems they face every day. It’s how they behave when no one is looking. If you don’t methodically set your culture, then two-thirds of it will end up being accidental, and the rest will be a mistake. If you’re looking for a more in-depth guide to culture and how to build a great one, I’d recommend Ben’s book: What You Do Is Who You Are.
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Q: Why is company culture important? In the clip below, a16z cofounder Ben Horowitz argues that culture drives how people in your company behave on a daily basis—and particularly, how they behave when you’re not looking. Is that phone call so important I need to return it today or can it wait until tomorrow? Can I ask for a raise before my annual review? Is the quality of this document good enough or should I keep working on it? Do I have to be on time for that meeting? Should I stay at the Four Seasons or the Red Roof Inn? Should I go home at 5 p.m. or 8 p.m.? Should we discuss the color of this new product for five minutes or thirty hours? If I know something is badly broken in the company, should I say something? Whom should I tell? Is winning more important than ethics? None of these things are in your mission statement or OKRs, but they determine many important things for your company, such as how people experience your company, what you’re like to do business with, what your company is like to work at, etc. And as Ben describes, what drives the culture is all of the little behaviors and cues people take on: “this is what I have to do to succeed in this company.” Culture can feel abstract and secondary when you pit it against a concrete result that’s right in front of you, but it’s a strategic investment in the company doing things the right way when you are not looking. It’s the set of assumptions your employees use to resolve the problems they face every day. It’s how they behave when no one is looking. If you don’t methodically set your culture, then two-thirds of it will end up being accidental, and the rest will be a mistake. If you’re looking for a more in-depth guide to culture and how to build a great one, I’d recommend Ben’s book: What You Do Is Who You Are.

Michael McGuiness

180,646 views • 3 years ago

your original birth certificate has a stamped number on it. that's a bond number. that bond number is traded on the stock market. the value of that bond number on the market is your value to them - which is commensurate with the amount of wealth they have stolen from you. that's called your minor estate. you can bitch all you want about whether nesara is a real thing or not - I could care less. one way or the other, this will all be sorted out. if I know, you know. If you know, then you can bet your ass they know that we all know. ncswic is not a tagline. you can take that to the bank.
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your original birth certificate has a stamped number on it. that's a bond number. that bond number is traded on the stock market. the value of that bond number on the market is your value to them - which is commensurate with the amount of wealth they have stolen from you. that's called your minor estate. you can bitch all you want about whether nesara is a real thing or not - I could care less. one way or the other, this will all be sorted out. if I know, you know. If you know, then you can bet your ass they know that we all know. ncswic is not a tagline. you can take that to the bank.

The Rubber Duck ™

2,977,004 views • 2 years ago

Charles Barkley says putting family on the payroll is the fastest way to go broke "I tell these young kids, if you want to do something nice for your mom and dad, or a brother or sister, that's fine but they don't have to be on the payroll. You don't owe them that. That was their job to take care of you" "Grant Hill's mom gave me the best advice ever. Don't start taking care of your family and friends, they're never going to stop and it's going to ruin all your relationships" "When you start giving people money, they're never going to ask you just one time. No matter what you do for them, the first time you tell them no, they hate you"
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Charles Barkley says putting family on the payroll is the fastest way to go broke "I tell these young kids, if you want to do something nice for your mom and dad, or a brother or sister, that's fine but they don't have to be on the payroll. You don't owe them that. That was their job to take care of you" "Grant Hill's mom gave me the best advice ever. Don't start taking care of your family and friends, they're never going to stop and it's going to ruin all your relationships" "When you start giving people money, they're never going to ask you just one time. No matter what you do for them, the first time you tell them no, they hate you"

katsu

898,349 views • 2 months ago

The Chair of the Labour Party is saying that it’s ok to lie on your tax returns or lie on an official document if you are going through a relationship breakdown. #AngelaRayner
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The Chair of the Labour Party is saying that it’s ok to lie on your tax returns or lie on an official document if you are going through a relationship breakdown. #AngelaRayner

Rush

66,637 views • 2 years ago

How do we make invisible progress visible? "If you look at technologies that are really good at building habits, they’re great at visualization. You’re playing a video game; you have a score in the top corner of the screen. It’s increasing all the time as you go through the level. Every time you pick up a weapon or a ruby or a gem or whatever, there’s a little jingle or a chime; there’s some kind of power-up. Even the pitter-patter of footsteps as you run through the level is a signal that you’re progressing. So you have all these visual and audio signals of progress; the feedback is immediate. And if you compare that experience of just playing this level for 15 minutes to what it’s like to sit down and try to write a blog post or record a podcast interview or do anything in the normal world, it’s very different. The feedback comes much slower in real life. My parents like to swim. And one of the challenges of swimming is that your body looks exactly the same when you get out of the water as it did when you jumped in. If they’re doing it for the visual results, it takes two years for your body to change in the mirror. And so they have a little habit tracker where they just put an X down for each day they do their workout, and then at the end of the month, they count up how many workouts they did and compare that number to the month before. Putting that X down at the end of the workout is such a small little thing, but it’s one little visual signal that we showed up and we did the right thing today, that I did what I was supposed to do. It’s a way of visualizing your progress. Finding ways to visualize your progress as you go through your habits is important because a hallmark of almost any compounding process is that the greatest returns are delayed." (James Clear on The Knowledge Project)
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How do we make invisible progress visible? "If you look at technologies that are really good at building habits, they’re great at visualization. You’re playing a video game; you have a score in the top corner of the screen. It’s increasing all the time as you go through the level. Every time you pick up a weapon or a ruby or a gem or whatever, there’s a little jingle or a chime; there’s some kind of power-up. Even the pitter-patter of footsteps as you run through the level is a signal that you’re progressing. So you have all these visual and audio signals of progress; the feedback is immediate. And if you compare that experience of just playing this level for 15 minutes to what it’s like to sit down and try to write a blog post or record a podcast interview or do anything in the normal world, it’s very different. The feedback comes much slower in real life. My parents like to swim. And one of the challenges of swimming is that your body looks exactly the same when you get out of the water as it did when you jumped in. If they’re doing it for the visual results, it takes two years for your body to change in the mirror. And so they have a little habit tracker where they just put an X down for each day they do their workout, and then at the end of the month, they count up how many workouts they did and compare that number to the month before. Putting that X down at the end of the workout is such a small little thing, but it’s one little visual signal that we showed up and we did the right thing today, that I did what I was supposed to do. It’s a way of visualizing your progress. Finding ways to visualize your progress as you go through your habits is important because a hallmark of almost any compounding process is that the greatest returns are delayed." (James Clear on The Knowledge Project)

Shane Parrish

24,891 views • 7 months ago

When your creative work is used without pay, is it unfair or just part of the industry? TIME Editor at Large Belinda Luscombe—author of 'Marriageology: The Art and Science of Staying Together'—weighs in on this reader question our new advice series tackling the questions that keep you up at night. Got a tough situation of your own? Whether it’s a difficult boss, a complicated relationship, or a family conflict, you don’t have to navigate it alone. Submit your dilemma here:
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When your creative work is used without pay, is it unfair or just part of the industry? TIME Editor at Large Belinda Luscombe—author of 'Marriageology: The Art and Science of Staying Together'—weighs in on this reader question our new advice series tackling the questions that keep you up at night. Got a tough situation of your own? Whether it’s a difficult boss, a complicated relationship, or a family conflict, you don’t have to navigate it alone. Submit your dilemma here:

TIME

16,148 views • 6 months ago

Buzz Williams on ensuring your rate of learning is greater than or equal to the rate of change, an adapt or die mentality, and your future being hidden in your inputs: 🧠 Your advantage is not what you know today. It is how quickly you can update what you know tomorrow. When your rate of learning matches the rate of change, you stay relevant. When it exceeds it, you gain an edge. (L > C). 🦖 Adaptation is a personality trait, not a one-time decision. Leaders who refuse to evolve slowly become experts in a world that no longer exists. 🗑️ Your outputs are a reflection of your inputs. What you read, what you listen to, and what you watch quietly shape the quality of your thinking and, ultimately, the quality of your decisions. Your future is hidden in your inputs. What you consume today becomes the ecosystem you create tomorrow. 🪴
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Buzz Williams on ensuring your rate of learning is greater than or equal to the rate of change, an adapt or die mentality, and your future being hidden in your inputs: 🧠 Your advantage is not what you know today. It is how quickly you can update what you know tomorrow. When your rate of learning matches the rate of change, you stay relevant. When it exceeds it, you gain an edge. (L > C). 🦖 Adaptation is a personality trait, not a one-time decision. Leaders who refuse to evolve slowly become experts in a world that no longer exists. 🗑️ Your outputs are a reflection of your inputs. What you read, what you listen to, and what you watch quietly shape the quality of your thinking and, ultimately, the quality of your decisions. Your future is hidden in your inputs. What you consume today becomes the ecosystem you create tomorrow. 🪴

Josh Chambers

36,572 views • 3 months ago