The difference between self worth vs narcissism. Jefferson Fisher

@jefferson_fishr Self‑worth is the quiet confidence that says “I’m good enough,” while narcissism is the loud speaker that keeps shouting “Look at me!” 😭

@jefferson_fishr never base self worth in accomplishments. base it on your heart & spine

@jefferson_fishr The difference is the fall for anything or stand for something in your own self love… Would you do it for others or just your self??? Questions all humans need to ask of the self… Others will do as most humans do do…🤷🏼‍♀️ That’s what I got from listening…

@jefferson_fishr Yeah, once they recognize no power over You games go on higher level, You may lose your job finally. :) How much self worth can hit narcissist worth?

@jefferson_fishr Self-worth builds quietly and needs no audience. Narcissism performs value because it never feels it.

You are presenting a simplistic binary that completely misses how these traits share the exact same underlying neurological wiring. In my psychiatric research tracking personality structures, narcissism is not the opposite of self-worth, but a maladaptive defensive mask built specifically to overcompensate for a total absence of deep internal value. True self-worth functions like a quiet baseline that requires zero external feedback, whereas pathological narcissism forces an individual to constantly exploit their environment to manufacture validation. Framing them as two separate choices ignores the psychological reality that a narcissist is just someone trapped in a state of perpetual panic over the fact that they feel entirely worthless inside ;o)

Let’s be crystal clear: Robert Greene is a smart man. Look at what he’s built and how effectively he packaged his brand. There is no denying the utility in knowing how to capture an audience's attention on a massive scale. ​However, there is a distinct flip side to that coin. ​When you strip away the sleek exterior, his work relies heavily on curating and repackaging centuries of other people’s historical observations, presenting them as modern gospel while the masses mistake synthesis for original genius. Meanwhile, what happens when real-time, unscripted friction enters the room? ​This isn't AI-generated noise or stolen valor; it's an authentic, independent perspective breaking down the machinery in real time. Let’s see the "master" actually engage. Let's see the strategist step out from behind the safety of curated post notifications and scripted frameworks to handle a direct, unfiltered challenge in real-time theater. ​If a supposed master of strategy cannot defend a basic premise or engage in unscripted discourse over a digital text thread, how would that performance hold up under the hot lights of a real, live stage where scripts are useless against someone speaking raw truth? ​Pre-packaged fortune cookies only work when everyone in the room agrees to read from the same playbook. The moment someone goes off-script, the illusion ends.

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@jefferson_fishr You clear many things everyday. My vision gets more and more clear.

@jefferson_fishr Narcissism often looks like extreme self-love, but it’s frequently fragile self-esteem defended through admiration, superiority, or control.

@jefferson_fishr Le plus difficile, c est quand vous vous ouvrez a une personne narcissique. Elle aspire tout comme une éponge, MAIS gentiment, et ensuite elle utilise tout contre vous et là sa commence à faire mal et instaure une incomprehension profonde.