This is sad. What advice would you give her?

True fulfillment can’t be found with a relationship. Only God. I would recommend joining a church and taking on a small group to focus on serving others so she can begin to cultivate deeper friendships with others and a relationship with God. I believe an intimate relationship is much more complicated. You have to master the basics first.

1 year after her divorce and she’s already looking for another man to get engaged with? She should focus on self improvement. Metal, physical and emotional

Stop consuming sugar in sweets, drinks, and deserts. Cut it all out!!! It will transform her entire life. Her complexion will improve, she'll lose weight, she'll feel healthier, look healthier and regain her confidence. It's the key to happiness for her.

This broke my heart. I want to give her a hug and tell her she is loved.

Love yourself first. Change your diet. Start walking, swimming, moving. Cook whole foods. Work on healing from the divorce. You seem codependent if you're already looking. Learn to enjoy your own company.

My advice: uninstall TikTok and all other social media. Not doing her any good

1. You are not ugly. Beauty standards 150 years ago would classify you as healthy and beautiful; our society has become obsessed with thin. 2. Find a nice set of guys by attending church where the nice guys are. Dont go out with guys that would be a mismatch for you and your life style. 3. Focus on your relationship with God first. When you are focused on dating you come across as desperate very often, so focus on Him and see who comes by to know you.

Lose weight lol

You can fix this though. I feel horrible for her bc she doesn’t really see a way out, but you can start small and just go for walks, eat a little bit better and work your way up to training in a proper gym and really watching what you’re eating. Too many people see fitness as this giant mountain and it can be, but if you break it down to the smaller parts of the journey it gets a whole lot easier to see the light at the end of the tunnel.

Stop looking for a man to fulfil your needs. Work on yourself, your confidence, your career etc . All this neediness and self loathing will only attract the wrong sort if men. Go to counselling and work on yourself, your confidence and stop relying on finding a man to validate your worth.