What advice would you give to this guy?

Go to church.

let me know what you think of this

Go find a brothel.. This is just sad

Go to give him respect for openly admitting this. My advice, goto the gym, find physical challenges to overcome, goto church, get off the internet.

Not to get discouraged by bad dates Bad dates can be good, IMO You’d rather not go down the road of a relationship with a person that isn’t right for you A good date is bound to happen eventually

While empathetic, I would be curious to learn about the root causes of this issue before providing advice.

Get in shape and they’ll come to you

Everyone deserves love and I truly hope he finds it

I have no idea tbh. I’ve known my hubby since we were 14. Didn’t date until our 20’s. I’ve never had an issue dating and having relationships. I don’t understand how you can work in a hospital with that huge amount of people as a possible dating pool and not make a connection unless you are deliberately choosing not too

Care about the right things. About people. Be loving toward others and wanting their happiness within the balance of your own well being as well. And also, express yourself as you are here so the dark secret becomes transparent. Just be the human heart you are. Drop self-pity.

Keep his hands off his nose?