💯 THIS 👇🏼

That's because with the patriarchy it is better if you are dead than "soiled" In a number of countries women who are raped are punished for having sex outside of marriage. Women are property and a "soiled" woman has no value. A disgusting set of values. 🤬

@BowlOfMice Many smaller animals or those with lesser abilities to fight an angry, hungry predator play dead. That is what compliance is, self preservation.

EXACTLY 💯 They will claim men can't control themselves But don't see intense debilitating terror as something that can't be controlled by victims

Because we let them. As Mme Pelicot said, the shame belongs on the other side.

This also happens during mass shootings where some victims freeze, and it's framed as « great instinct: they strategically played dead »

Maybe because the patriarchy understands that life is more valuable than belongings but values a woman’s “virtue” higher than her life.

While she is right, there is 1 problem. How do you prove a crime without evidence?

Nah, They ask whether you fought back to determine what evidence is available to help them prosecute....or are police not supposed to ask you for details of what happened now ? And sorry to burst your bubble, but some women do lie. Asking for proof of a crime isn't oppression.

I'm for women arming themselves and shooting any guy attempting to rape them.

Definitely this

It's not just rape We do the same with assault and attempted murder, and the lower key end bullying when it's things sure, go along when it's your body, and peace of mind then no don't go along

then you open up the unalienable right to woman just saying they got raped by their boyfriend when they're mad at them. there needs to be proof.

@Chenla_Chen I can’t ever remember shaming someone for being raped. I can’t even imagine it. I feel empathy for them. Probably because I was abused as a child. But we do need laws that punish anyone that files false claims.

There’s a lot of missing context and she’s conflated conversations about potential consent withdrawal and violent assault. Often, we’ve had events where people regret their choices the next day and claim it wasn’t their choice. Even men regret, but obviously can’t revoke it after the fact because of the nature of human anatomy. You didn’t want to, but why did you go through climax. “At the time” you weren’t thinking straight. So everyone just has to adapt to new cultural practices. Like 1st dates are never 1 on 1 with strangers. It’s a group outing for something cheap, like a coffee and frizbee golf at the park. Maybe even 2nd group outings required. Then 3rd is 1 on 1.

It was never different, there was never any confusion

Sexual assault is vastly more personal and violating than a mugging and the world is full of people who'd like to imagine that *they'd* fight to the death until it happens to them.

You are an idiot. After you meet your dream man and have your fun. The first thing you go is to guns. Are you an idiot? Your stinking Gash is weapon of massdestruction.

Ok let’s take a look @ self defense laws If I say to someone ok you have a knife stab me then become injured I can’t claim that I tried to defend or mitigate injury which is a consideration in offense ..Now this often happens with men as victims of assault his ability to defend

The real truth is because a lot of people are stupid fucks and project all the time

But with guns rapes are stopped more often than compliance. You Shoot the rapist with a 45 ACP poket pistol and the rapist goes down. A Knife or Taser as backup Works also on shorter Distances. Only in szenaryos already impoisioed with drugs are wepons useless