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Wife whose husband suffered a severe traumatic brain injury asks Dr. John Delony if it’s wrong to leave the marriage. Caller: “We’ve been married for 30 years. After a mountain biking accident, my husband was left with almost no short-term memory and now lives in a care facility. I’m...

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Saving Myself For Marriage Was A waste. Caller (Anna): ...how can I help the bitterness and resentment that's growing in me towards my husband, I feel like he's ruining s*x for me. Dr. John Delony: How is he ruining sex for you? Caller: Okay, so background... I grew up... Dr. John Delony: (laughing) You were like, "Okay, let's do this." Caller: (laughs) I grew up very religious. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller: Very religious. No fun things in the bedroom until marriage. Dr. John Delony: Okay, so you didn't sleep with anybody else until you got married. Caller: Correct. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller: I met my husband now, husband at 27, married at 30. So a long time. A long time. Dr. John Delony: Awesome. Caller: And while I absolutely adore him and I think he is a wonderful wonderful person when we got married, it was... it just was not at all... Dr. John Delony: What you had built it up to be? Caller: Yes, and it still isn't. I feel like... and I've... I've talked to him about it, and my thing is... our honeymoon felt like a vacation. It didn't feel like a honeymoon. Dr. John Delony: What does that mean? What does that mean? Caller: That means that I had to initiate a lot of the time. That means that he initiated maybe once in the whole honeymoon. And I feel like he was more concerned about looking pool-time and, you know, sightseeing than he was with the point of the honeymoon, in my opinion. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller (Anna): And that carried when we got home, of course, that carried on. It only kind of became a little bit more stagnant. And that aggression, that lust, that passion isn't there. And I've had to initiate a lot, way more than I really want to. And I don't feel desired anymore. And this is going to sound so stupid, but... Dr. John Delony: Nothing you're saying is stupid. Caller (Anna): I've been having these thoughts where it's like, if this was what it was going to be, I could have been having fun in my twenties. Dr. John Delony: Sure. That's not stupid at all, not even a tiny bit. Caller (Anna): Okay. Dr. John Delony: Don't beat yourself up about that. Caller (Anna): What was the point? What was the point if I was just going to have a regular, normal, boring marital s*x life, then I could have had fun while I had time, you know? And as horrible as that sounds, it's how I feel, you know? Dr. John Delony: I don't think it sounds horrible. I don't think it sounds horrible, it makes sense. But I think there's something deeper than this. Tell me if I'm crazy, okay?
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I Am Attracted To Another Man And Trying Not To Cheat On My Husband. How Do I Battle The Fantasy That Is Starting To Build In My Mind? Jane: ...stay faithful to my husband... Dr. John Delony: Woah. Okay. Jane: ...and I'm attracted to another man. Dr. John Delony: Okay, tell me about it. Jane: Which part? (laughs) Dr. John Delony: Um, well those, those are... those are often mutually exclusive, and you're combining them. So tell me about this person you're attracted to. Jane: Okay, um, so he, I haven't crossed the line for like physical contact. However, I'm doing everything I can to not make like an excuse to bump into him, uh, you know, have alone time with him. Okay. So, he is uh very different from my husband, and my husband is great, and this guy seems great, so maybe they're not that different. But um, physically they're very different. Um, their jobs are very different, and I am attracted to uh this guy. Dr. John Delony: What is it about this other guy that makes you feel a little more alive than you do in your own house? Jane: Um, I don't feel uh boring, like "Plain Jane" (laughs). Um, it's just almost like a fantasy life in my head of what would it be like to have a life with him versus the life I've created. Dr. John Delony: You just nailed it, sister. You nailed it. Jane: Yeah. Dr. John Delony: So you... Jane: But I still need your advice. (laughs) Dr. John Delony: Okay, but you just took full ownership in a way. And usually, like, I don't know if you've done some work or if you've just been stressing on this... Jane: Stressing. Dr. John Delony: The hardest part in this kind of situation, when somebody's standing at the precipice of making a life-altering decision that's going to blow their life up... Jane: Yes. Dr. John Delony: ...is taking ownership of the life you have co-created with somebody else. Jane: Yes. Dr. John Delony: Because that's the thing that you can change. Today, you can walk by this guy's desk or his office and drop a hotel keycard. Jane: Exactly. Dr. John Delony: You can do that. And if he chooses to, you know, let's go all the way through it, would he meet you there? Jane: Yes. Dr. John Delony: Okay. You could do that. Jane: And I have talked to my husband about this, also.. Dr. John Delony: Hold on, we're not there yet. You're trying to get out of the situation, stay in it with me. Jane: I am. Dr. John Delony: You can do that, and every part of your life work, home, do you have kids? Jane: Yes. Dr. John Delony: Kids every part of your life explodes. Jane: Yes. Dr. John Delony: And yet, this guy makes your heart beat a little faster, he laughs at your jokes, you like the way he moves... Jane: He's very cute. Dr. John Delony: He's a handsome guy. He's a good-looking guy. Jane: He's handsome, yeah.

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Man having an affair with his best friend’s wife asks Dr. John Delony if his marriage is over. Caller: “I’ve been sleeping with my best friend’s wife for about eight months, and neither my wife nor my friend knows. I don’t know if what I feel for her is real or if I’m just caught up in the excitement. Part of me wants to save my marriage, but I don’t know what to do.” Dr. John Delony didn’t sugarcoat the situation; “You’ve blown your life up.” His advice was direct: “Stop living in the fantasy. Come clean with your wife and your friend. You can’t make an honest decision about your marriage while hiding an affair that’s been going on for eight months.” The hard truth: You don’t get clarity by continuing the lie. If you want any chance of rebuilding your life, the deception has to end first.

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A husband says his wife wanted to be the sole breadwinner… but he never expected what it would do to their marriage. Caller: “My wife wanted to be the sole breadwinner, and I became the stay-at-home parent.” John Delony: “Did you both agree to this?” Caller: “Yeah. I wanted to be there for my son. I love doing it.” Caller: “But since we’ve had our son, our intimacy has essentially gone to nothing.” John Delony: “Not just sex… is the laughter, eye contact, handholding… is all of that gone too?” Caller: “Yes, pretty much.” Caller: “I’ve done everything she’s asked me to do. More dates, therapy, keeping the house clean, taking care of all the domestic things… nothing has improved.” Caller: “Whenever I bring it up, she says, ‘Oh, we’re on this again.’” John Delony: “Yeah. She doesn’t care.” Caller: “I know she cares about me.” John Delony: “Disagree. Disagree. Disagree.” John Delony: “You’re grasping for scraps of emotional and physical connection.” John Delony: “She’s not working so hard for you and for y’all. She’s working so hard for her.” John Delony: “Marriages only work if they’re co-created.”

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Woman who cheated on her husband and lied about it asks Dr. John Delony if she should finally come clean. Caller: “Two months ago, I slept with my gym trainer. I’ve been lying to my husband ever since, and I’ve even lied about it to our marriage counselor. We have two young children, and I’m terrified of what will happen to our family if I tell him the truth.” Dr. John Delony’s response was direct: “You already know the answer.” He argued that hiding the truth wasn’t protecting the marriage it was keeping the relationship built on a lie. “Relationships can’t survive big secrets. You need to tell him.” The hard truth: Confessing may have painful consequences, but continuing to build a marriage around a secret affair doesn’t give either person a real chance to make an honest decision about the future.
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Woman who cheated on her husband and lied about it asks Dr. John Delony if she should finally come clean. Caller: “Two months ago, I slept with my gym trainer. I’ve been lying to my husband ever since, and I’ve even lied about it to our marriage counselor. We have two young children, and I’m terrified of what will happen to our family if I tell him the truth.” Dr. John Delony’s response was direct: “You already know the answer.” He argued that hiding the truth wasn’t protecting the marriage it was keeping the relationship built on a lie. “Relationships can’t survive big secrets. You need to tell him.” The hard truth: Confessing may have painful consequences, but continuing to build a marriage around a secret affair doesn’t give either person a real chance to make an honest decision about the future.

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A man called John Delony after discovering his wife had been having an affair for over 6 years. Caller: “I’m just wondering if my marriage can move forward after my wife’s affair of over six years. It was with somebody who claimed to be my best friend… and several of my other friends.” John Delony: “How long have y’all been married?” Caller: “We’ve been married since 2016.” John Delony: “So she’s been having an affair almost the whole time?” Caller: “Yeah… emotionally it started in 2018, and it didn’t get physical until late 2019.” John Delony: “Do you have kids?” Caller: “Yeah… I had them tested shortly after we found out.” John Delony: “So y’all have been treading water for a year now?” Caller: “She says she’s really remorseful. She wants to try again. I feel like I don’t know who she is, I can’t trust anything she says.” John Delony: “Both of those things are true. You’re not crazy.” Caller: “I just found out another one of my really good buddies was involved too.” John Delony: “Your wife and this guy too?” Caller: “Yeah.” John Delony: “Good God, dude.” Caller: “I stopped digging because I didn’t want any more names… but they just keep coming out.” John Delony: “Your wife slept with your friends. Friends, plural. You had to get your children tested because of your wife’s lack of integrity.”
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A man called John Delony after discovering his wife had been having an affair for over 6 years. Caller: “I’m just wondering if my marriage can move forward after my wife’s affair of over six years. It was with somebody who claimed to be my best friend… and several of my other friends.” John Delony: “How long have y’all been married?” Caller: “We’ve been married since 2016.” John Delony: “So she’s been having an affair almost the whole time?” Caller: “Yeah… emotionally it started in 2018, and it didn’t get physical until late 2019.” John Delony: “Do you have kids?” Caller: “Yeah… I had them tested shortly after we found out.” John Delony: “So y’all have been treading water for a year now?” Caller: “She says she’s really remorseful. She wants to try again. I feel like I don’t know who she is, I can’t trust anything she says.” John Delony: “Both of those things are true. You’re not crazy.” Caller: “I just found out another one of my really good buddies was involved too.” John Delony: “Your wife and this guy too?” Caller: “Yeah.” John Delony: “Good God, dude.” Caller: “I stopped digging because I didn’t want any more names… but they just keep coming out.” John Delony: “Your wife slept with your friends. Friends, plural. You had to get your children tested because of your wife’s lack of integrity.”

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Exhausted father of five says he feels like a failure at everything and doesn’t know how much longer he can keep going. Caller: “I’m 45, married, and have five kids. Lately, I feel like I’m failing at everything my job, coaching, cooking, you name it. I’m mentally exhausted, overwhelmed, and honestly feel like I just want to give up.” Dr. John Delony responded with empathy rather than judgment; “This may be the bravest phone call I’ve received in months.” He challenged the man’s belief that he was failing. “You’re not failing. You’re lonely and unanchored.” The hard truth: Sometimes exhaustion convinces you that you’re bad at everything, when what you really need isn’t to work harder it’s to reconnect with yourself, your people, and the things that give your life meaning.
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Exhausted father of five says he feels like a failure at everything and doesn’t know how much longer he can keep going. Caller: “I’m 45, married, and have five kids. Lately, I feel like I’m failing at everything my job, coaching, cooking, you name it. I’m mentally exhausted, overwhelmed, and honestly feel like I just want to give up.” Dr. John Delony responded with empathy rather than judgment; “This may be the bravest phone call I’ve received in months.” He challenged the man’s belief that he was failing. “You’re not failing. You’re lonely and unanchored.” The hard truth: Sometimes exhaustion convinces you that you’re bad at everything, when what you really need isn’t to work harder it’s to reconnect with yourself, your people, and the things that give your life meaning.

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A man asked John Delony if he should stay friends with the man who slept with his wife. Caller: “Is it worth trying to preserve my friendship with the man who slept with my wife?” John Delony: “God, no. No. Tell me what you’re thinking through.” Caller: “This is someone that I’ve known since high school.” John Delony: “Yeah… but he slept with your wife.” Caller: “She initiated.” John Delony: “Yeah… but he slept with your wife.” Caller: “I got home early from work. His car was in my driveway. I walked into my bedroom… they were both in their underwear. My wife is not wanting to patch things up. We’re in the middle of the divorce.” John Delony: “Don’t sacrifice your integrity and your character for grief. Your wife has abandoned you and left you.” John Delony: “She embarrassed you in your own home, in your own bed. Your best friend humiliated you.” John Delony: “He revealed himself as somebody you didn’t know him to be. And you trusted him with everything.”
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A man asked John Delony if he should stay friends with the man who slept with his wife. Caller: “Is it worth trying to preserve my friendship with the man who slept with my wife?” John Delony: “God, no. No. Tell me what you’re thinking through.” Caller: “This is someone that I’ve known since high school.” John Delony: “Yeah… but he slept with your wife.” Caller: “She initiated.” John Delony: “Yeah… but he slept with your wife.” Caller: “I got home early from work. His car was in my driveway. I walked into my bedroom… they were both in their underwear. My wife is not wanting to patch things up. We’re in the middle of the divorce.” John Delony: “Don’t sacrifice your integrity and your character for grief. Your wife has abandoned you and left you.” John Delony: “She embarrassed you in your own home, in your own bed. Your best friend humiliated you.” John Delony: “He revealed himself as somebody you didn’t know him to be. And you trusted him with everything.”

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A man who says he’s regretted his marriage for 14 years asked Dr. John Delony whether it’s finally time to leave. Caller: “I’ve regretted getting married almost from the beginning. I even tried to call off our engagement, but everyone told me I was just dealing with anxiety. I eventually had an affair, I’m no longer attracted to my wife, and I’ve spent 14 years building resentment toward her.” Delony didn’t let him avoid responsibility; “For 14 years, you’ve continued making choices that have kept you in this situation. You’ve chosen misery and infidelity over and over again.” His advice was blunt: “Own your part in this. You have two honest options: fully commit to repairing this marriage or leave. Either decision will require courage, but continuing to live in resentment isn’t a solution.” The hard truth: You can’t spend 14 years blaming someone else for a life you repeatedly chose to continue. At some point, you have to take responsibility for what you do next.
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A man who says he’s regretted his marriage for 14 years asked Dr. John Delony whether it’s finally time to leave. Caller: “I’ve regretted getting married almost from the beginning. I even tried to call off our engagement, but everyone told me I was just dealing with anxiety. I eventually had an affair, I’m no longer attracted to my wife, and I’ve spent 14 years building resentment toward her.” Delony didn’t let him avoid responsibility; “For 14 years, you’ve continued making choices that have kept you in this situation. You’ve chosen misery and infidelity over and over again.” His advice was blunt: “Own your part in this. You have two honest options: fully commit to repairing this marriage or leave. Either decision will require courage, but continuing to live in resentment isn’t a solution.” The hard truth: You can’t spend 14 years blaming someone else for a life you repeatedly chose to continue. At some point, you have to take responsibility for what you do next.

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A married couple struggling with different levels of sexual desire asked Dr. John Delony for advice. Caller (Elizabeth) explained: “I rarely think about sex or feel the urge to initiate it. I waited until marriage and spent years teaching myself not to need it. My husband wants physical intimacy much more often.” Her husband, (Joel), saw it differently: “Physical touch and quality time are how I feel loved. Sex is a big part of how I experience that connection.” Dr. John Delony praised the couple for being honest with each other; “You may be having one of the healthiest first-year conversations I’ve ever heard. Kudos to both of you.” His advice was simple but deeper than just negotiating how often they should have sex: “Start asking yourself, ‘What do I want?’” The hard truth: A healthy marriage isn’t about one partner always giving in. It’s about both people becoming honest about their needs and learning how to navigate them together.
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A married couple struggling with different levels of sexual desire asked Dr. John Delony for advice. Caller (Elizabeth) explained: “I rarely think about sex or feel the urge to initiate it. I waited until marriage and spent years teaching myself not to need it. My husband wants physical intimacy much more often.” Her husband, (Joel), saw it differently: “Physical touch and quality time are how I feel loved. Sex is a big part of how I experience that connection.” Dr. John Delony praised the couple for being honest with each other; “You may be having one of the healthiest first-year conversations I’ve ever heard. Kudos to both of you.” His advice was simple but deeper than just negotiating how often they should have sex: “Start asking yourself, ‘What do I want?’” The hard truth: A healthy marriage isn’t about one partner always giving in. It’s about both people becoming honest about their needs and learning how to navigate them together.

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A woman who hadn’t been intimate with her husband in two years asked Dr. John Delony if a lack of sex was a valid reason to consider divorce. Caller: “We haven’t had sex in two years. Part of me wants to leave, but I feel guilty asking for a divorce over something like this. How can I end my marriage because my husband won’t be intimate with me?” Delony challenged the idea that sex was the real issue; “I don’t think you actually want to leave your husband simply because you’re not having sex.” He suggested the deeper problem was the absence of connection in the marriage. “The real issue is that he’s not connecting with you physically, emotionally, or relationally. The lack of intimacy is a symptom of a much bigger disconnection between the two of you.” The hard truth: Sometimes the problem isn’t simply that sex has disappeared. It’s that the relationship itself has stopped feeling intimate.
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A woman who hadn’t been intimate with her husband in two years asked Dr. John Delony if a lack of sex was a valid reason to consider divorce. Caller: “We haven’t had sex in two years. Part of me wants to leave, but I feel guilty asking for a divorce over something like this. How can I end my marriage because my husband won’t be intimate with me?” Delony challenged the idea that sex was the real issue; “I don’t think you actually want to leave your husband simply because you’re not having sex.” He suggested the deeper problem was the absence of connection in the marriage. “The real issue is that he’s not connecting with you physically, emotionally, or relationally. The lack of intimacy is a symptom of a much bigger disconnection between the two of you.” The hard truth: Sometimes the problem isn’t simply that sex has disappeared. It’s that the relationship itself has stopped feeling intimate.

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“17 Years of Marriage, and I've Never Enjoyed Sex” Caller: My husband and I have been married for about 17 and a half years, and he's been a very selfish lover our entire marriage. I don't know how to get my sexual needs met or get him invested in that for me. Dr. John Delony: How long has he been selfish? Caller: Our entire marriage. We've talked about it for years, so it's not that he doesn't know. Any time he tries to do something for me, it's really with himself in mind. He'll buy certain sex toys saying, "I think you'll really enjoy this," but it's really for him. Dr. John Delony: You cannot motivate somebody to not be an ass. If he's an ass, he's an ass. Instead of calling them needs, tell him exactly what you want. If you've been married for 17 years and he looks at you and says, "I don't care what you want. We're gonna have sex, I'm gonna get off, and then I'm gonna go to bed," then you're married to someone who doesn't care about you. If you tell him, "These are the things that help me reach orgasm. Will you do them?" and he says no, then we need to get curious about why. Caller: For me, it takes a really long time to reach orgasm. It takes a lot of focus, and he gets tired because it's not immediate gratification for him. Dr. John Delony: It's not hard. It may be frustrating, it may be annoying, but it's not hard.
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“17 Years of Marriage, and I've Never Enjoyed Sex” Caller: My husband and I have been married for about 17 and a half years, and he's been a very selfish lover our entire marriage. I don't know how to get my sexual needs met or get him invested in that for me. Dr. John Delony: How long has he been selfish? Caller: Our entire marriage. We've talked about it for years, so it's not that he doesn't know. Any time he tries to do something for me, it's really with himself in mind. He'll buy certain sex toys saying, "I think you'll really enjoy this," but it's really for him. Dr. John Delony: You cannot motivate somebody to not be an ass. If he's an ass, he's an ass. Instead of calling them needs, tell him exactly what you want. If you've been married for 17 years and he looks at you and says, "I don't care what you want. We're gonna have sex, I'm gonna get off, and then I'm gonna go to bed," then you're married to someone who doesn't care about you. If you tell him, "These are the things that help me reach orgasm. Will you do them?" and he says no, then we need to get curious about why. Caller: For me, it takes a really long time to reach orgasm. It takes a lot of focus, and he gets tired because it's not immediate gratification for him. Dr. John Delony: It's not hard. It may be frustrating, it may be annoying, but it's not hard.

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I don’t want my husband to touch me at all. Caller: “My husband is deployed right now and he should be coming home soon.” “I’m so excited that he’s coming home… but I’m also dreading it.” “I just don’t feel any sexual desire for him.” “I’m scared for when he gets home and he’s going to want to be with me… and I just don’t have that feeling.” Dr. John Delony: “Is the whole switch off… or are you just specifically not attracted to him?” Caller: “The whole switch is off.” John: “Are you interested in reigniting sensuality and sexual desire? Is that something you want for yourself?” Caller: “Yeah. I want to want that for myself and for my husband.” Then he asked a question that changed the entire conversation: “Have you ever gone to sit with somebody and walk through your past?” Caller: “No… it was during my teen years. More than once.” John: “Can I just tell you I’m sorry.” And suddenly, this wasn’t really a story about a husband coming home from deployment. It was about a woman whose body may have learned a long time ago that touch wasn’t safe. The hard truth: You can’t shame yourself into wanting intimacy. And you shouldn’t force yourself to have sex just because your husband is home. But if she genuinely wants desire back, the answer may not be “try harder to be attracted to your husband.” It may be learning why her body learned to shut the door in the first place. Sometimes the problem isn’t that you don’t want intimacy. It’s that some part of you is still trying to protect you from it.
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I don’t want my husband to touch me at all. Caller: “My husband is deployed right now and he should be coming home soon.” “I’m so excited that he’s coming home… but I’m also dreading it.” “I just don’t feel any sexual desire for him.” “I’m scared for when he gets home and he’s going to want to be with me… and I just don’t have that feeling.” Dr. John Delony: “Is the whole switch off… or are you just specifically not attracted to him?” Caller: “The whole switch is off.” John: “Are you interested in reigniting sensuality and sexual desire? Is that something you want for yourself?” Caller: “Yeah. I want to want that for myself and for my husband.” Then he asked a question that changed the entire conversation: “Have you ever gone to sit with somebody and walk through your past?” Caller: “No… it was during my teen years. More than once.” John: “Can I just tell you I’m sorry.” And suddenly, this wasn’t really a story about a husband coming home from deployment. It was about a woman whose body may have learned a long time ago that touch wasn’t safe. The hard truth: You can’t shame yourself into wanting intimacy. And you shouldn’t force yourself to have sex just because your husband is home. But if she genuinely wants desire back, the answer may not be “try harder to be attracted to your husband.” It may be learning why her body learned to shut the door in the first place. Sometimes the problem isn’t that you don’t want intimacy. It’s that some part of you is still trying to protect you from it.

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My Girlfriend Gave Me An HIV; Not Sure Where To Go From Here ( Should We Stay Together?) Caller (Tim):so my question is, my girlfriend gave me a... a quite serious STD, and my parents found out about this. They are now against our relationship saying that it's a way that God is showing that this relationship was not meant to be. Um, I've been fighting this like against my parents. And my question is, has... is there too much that has happened for this relationship to work? Uh, or am I trying too hard to make it work? Dr. John Delony: Bro, there's a lot going on here, man. Whole lot. Um, before I dig in, let's... let me just... let's just have a conversation so I can get to know you for a second. Is that cool? Caller: Okay, yeah. Dr. John Delony: Um, you sound a little bit nervous. Are you nervous, or is this just weird? Or, I realize you're calling a stranger being like, "Yeah, I got an STI from this woman that I love." This whole thing's kind of weird. Caller: Well, no. This is basically the first person outside of this situation that I've talked to, so... Dr. John Delony: Gotcha. Well, dude, I'm... I'm grateful for the trust. It sounds like there's a lot, lot going on here. Um, tell me about you. How old are you? What do you do for a living? All that kind of stuff. Caller: Uh, 27. Um, uh, going to... uh, studying nursing. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller: And, uh, just about to graduate here. Dr. John Delony: So, congratulations on that. Um, do you live at home? Caller: No, I don't. Dr. John Delony: Okay. So, what kind of STI did you get? Caller: Uh, HIV. Dr. John Delony: Okay. So, you've got HIV. Okay, so I was wondering if this was... The... my first question was why in the world do your parents know? Um, if I'm 27, the last people on planet Earth I would call and tell I have an STI is my parents. But, um, HIV is super serious. What is your, um, health prognosis? Caller: it's... so, I guess the situation gets a little bit more difficult because, my dad does computer diagnostics, and he was able to accidentally kind of find out I have this, and so I am... Dr. John Delony: Accidentally kind of? What does that mean? Caller: Meaning he wasn't expecting it. He wasn't looking for it. It was just kind of came up when, uh, he was doing the... I regularly do checkups. He's a... a doctor. Dr. John Delony: Oh, so he's a doctor at the place where you went to get checked out, and he discovered through the computer system that his son has HIV? Caller: Yes. it's a... alternative medicine that he does, and so it's... it's a very different kind from modern medicine, so it's just the way that he found out. Um, I just go to my dad for all his, checkups. Dr. John Delony: Yeah. What a mess. Okay, so tell me about this person that you're dating. Caller: Um, so... um... I guess what... uh, what would you like to know about her? Dr. John Delony: Well, just tell me about her. Caller: Well, uh, she's a... she's a nurse. Um, and, uh, Illinois, and, um... This is the second, uh, serious relationship she's had. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller: Uh, for me, it's... um, maybe the first serious relationship for me. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller: Um, and so, she's... I mean, she grew up in a Christian family. She's... um... Dr. John Delony: Did she knowingly... knowingly give you HIV? Caller: No, she didn't know about it. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Is she the first person you've ever slept with? Caller: Yes. Dr. John Delony: Okay. How long have y'all been together?
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My Girlfriend Gave Me An HIV; Not Sure Where To Go From Here ( Should We Stay Together?) Caller (Tim):so my question is, my girlfriend gave me a... a quite serious STD, and my parents found out about this. They are now against our relationship saying that it's a way that God is showing that this relationship was not meant to be. Um, I've been fighting this like against my parents. And my question is, has... is there too much that has happened for this relationship to work? Uh, or am I trying too hard to make it work? Dr. John Delony: Bro, there's a lot going on here, man. Whole lot. Um, before I dig in, let's... let me just... let's just have a conversation so I can get to know you for a second. Is that cool? Caller: Okay, yeah. Dr. John Delony: Um, you sound a little bit nervous. Are you nervous, or is this just weird? Or, I realize you're calling a stranger being like, "Yeah, I got an STI from this woman that I love." This whole thing's kind of weird. Caller: Well, no. This is basically the first person outside of this situation that I've talked to, so... Dr. John Delony: Gotcha. Well, dude, I'm... I'm grateful for the trust. It sounds like there's a lot, lot going on here. Um, tell me about you. How old are you? What do you do for a living? All that kind of stuff. Caller: Uh, 27. Um, uh, going to... uh, studying nursing. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller: And, uh, just about to graduate here. Dr. John Delony: So, congratulations on that. Um, do you live at home? Caller: No, I don't. Dr. John Delony: Okay. So, what kind of STI did you get? Caller: Uh, HIV. Dr. John Delony: Okay. So, you've got HIV. Okay, so I was wondering if this was... The... my first question was why in the world do your parents know? Um, if I'm 27, the last people on planet Earth I would call and tell I have an STI is my parents. But, um, HIV is super serious. What is your, um, health prognosis? Caller: it's... so, I guess the situation gets a little bit more difficult because, my dad does computer diagnostics, and he was able to accidentally kind of find out I have this, and so I am... Dr. John Delony: Accidentally kind of? What does that mean? Caller: Meaning he wasn't expecting it. He wasn't looking for it. It was just kind of came up when, uh, he was doing the... I regularly do checkups. He's a... a doctor. Dr. John Delony: Oh, so he's a doctor at the place where you went to get checked out, and he discovered through the computer system that his son has HIV? Caller: Yes. it's a... alternative medicine that he does, and so it's... it's a very different kind from modern medicine, so it's just the way that he found out. Um, I just go to my dad for all his, checkups. Dr. John Delony: Yeah. What a mess. Okay, so tell me about this person that you're dating. Caller: Um, so... um... I guess what... uh, what would you like to know about her? Dr. John Delony: Well, just tell me about her. Caller: Well, uh, she's a... she's a nurse. Um, and, uh, Illinois, and, um... This is the second, uh, serious relationship she's had. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller: Uh, for me, it's... um, maybe the first serious relationship for me. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller: Um, and so, she's... I mean, she grew up in a Christian family. She's... um... Dr. John Delony: Did she knowingly... knowingly give you HIV? Caller: No, she didn't know about it. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Is she the first person you've ever slept with? Caller: Yes. Dr. John Delony: Okay. How long have y'all been together?

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