Allie Beth Stuckey
@conservmillen • 586,556 subscribers
Host, @relatablewabs. Author of the NYT Bestseller, “Toxic Empathy,” and “You’re Not Enough (& That’s Okay)”
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I was wrong about Lindsay Clancy. Here’s why I changed my mind. She was never diagnosed with postpartum depression or psychosis. She was not on 13 medications at once. She was not “hearing voices.” She was not abandoned by her family. She was diagnosed with a mood disorder - never psychosis - and went to a variety of doctors who all prescribed different medications, which she took unreliably and not simultaneously. She only heard a voice one time - and that was right before she killed her kids. Extremely atypical for psychosis. She carefully planned her children’s murders down to the minute. She researched the distance of a restaurant she’d ask Patrick to go to. Added on a last-minute errand before he left. Calmly answered his phone call in the middle of her crime. Brought her children down to the basement one by one, overpowering their resistance and killing them slowly. It does seem like she had support from her family. She may have still been overwhelmed, but it’s not true that all of her cries for help went unanswered. I originally placed too much blame on the many SSRIs she was prescribed. For years on my show, I’ve talked to health professionals who have been warning about the violence-inducing effects of these drugs, and I thought Lindsay’s case may be an example of that reality. Is it still possible these SSRIs had a negative effect? Absolutely. But the case that these drove her into a psychotic episode is weak. This evidence continues to reveal, in my opinion, that Lindsay Clancy methodically murdered her children and she was fully aware of what she was doing.
Allie Beth Stuckey2,564,269 görüntüleme • 20 gün önce
In-n-Out President Lynsi Snyder reveals for the first time that she and her family are LEAVING California for Tennessee. “Raising a family is not easy here,” she told me. “Doing business is not easy here.” After 77 years, In-n-Out HQ will say goodbye to its home state and set up shop in Franklin. The granddaughter of the fast food chain’s founders, Snyder is staying true to the company’s Christian foundation while expanding its reach. Our conversation was fascinating. Lynsi shares the untold story of In-n-Out’s early years and the hardship she went through before becoming the successful business leader she is. Her journey to Jesus is raw and redemptive. You will be so encouraged.
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3 reasons why Lindsay Clancy is absolutely guilty 1. Mental illness does not equal legal insanity. The question isn’t whether Lindsay was mentally ill—it’s whether she was incapable of knowing right from wrong or controlling her actions. The defense did not make a strong case that she was out of control. 2. The evidence points to planning and purposeful action. She calculated the distance to the restaurant, added a CVS stop, timed Patrick’s absence, and calmly answered his call while the killings were underway. This doesn’t point to an uncontrollable psychotic break, but to a carefully planned sequence of events so she would have enough time to complete the murders. 3. Medical evidence at the time of the killings is stronger than hindsight opinions. Doctors who treated Lindsay before the killings documented depression, anxiety, insomnia, intrusive thoughts, and suicidal ideation—but not psychosis, postpartum depression, or auditory command hallucinations. Those terms were attached to her after the killings. The evidence points to Lindsay Clancy being criminally responsible for the murder of her children.
Allie Beth Stuckey195,953 görüntüleme • 13 gün önce
When my oldest was born, they refused to let me hold her because her oxygen levels were low. But I was persistent, and they eventually relented, allowing her to lay on my chest until the NICU nurse came to roll her away. When the nurse arrived, I asked that they check her oxygen levels one more time before taking her. They did. Oxygen: 100%. Perfect. The nurse shrugged and left. Our baby girl was healthy. She just needed me. My heartbeat, my warmth, my touch. She needed her mom. Stories like this aren’t rare. Newborns need their moms to regulate their oxygen and heart rate. That’s why, when at all possible, most doctors and hospitals give baby to mom right away. We know this when it comes to normal births, but when it comes to surrogacy - especially the kind when two men are purchasing a baby from a woman - the baby is immediately and intentionally taken away from his or her mom and given to two strangers. It is not surprising that these babies often undergo complications post-birth. Beyond that, we don’t fully know the physiological and psychological effect of robbing babies of their mothers at birth. It’s worse treatment than we give puppies and kittens, but when it’s for “inclusion,” it’s celebrated. Adoption is one thing - it redeems a broken situation. But surrogacy is another - it intentionally creates the broken situation. Babies’ needs will always matter more than adults’ wants.
Allie Beth Stuckey737,016 görüntüleme • 3 ay önce
I wasn’t going to respond to Candace publicly, but I was genuinely hurt by her accusation that I don’t care about who killed Charlie because I expressed concern for the lives of people who have been implicated in her series on CK’s murder. That couldn’t be further from the truth. Charlie was my friend. He encouraged me, prayed for me, championed me and gave me advice when I needed it. We linked arms for the gospel, and I miss that so much. I very much care about justice for him. But you know who cares about justice for Charlie far more than any of us? His family. His friends and colleagues who were with him every day. I trust that they are asking the right questions to the right people in the right way. That they are doing so in a manner that doesn’t stir up suspicion against innocent people. In a way that doesn’t hinder the actual investigation into who was involved in Charlie’s murder. I want to see due process play out uninhibited. And, yes, I do feel deeply for those who have been unfairly maligned by implications of guilt. That’s really scary, serious, and wrong. Most of all, I care about how Christians seek truth. “Just asking questions” isn’t a justification for slander. The God who created us and weighs our words has a lot to say about how we speak and what we seek. Today’s episode:
Allie Beth Stuckey2,679,488 görüntüleme • 10 ay önce
“It’s emotionally compelling to say killing babies. It’s not a baby. That’s not me being contrarian, that’s accuracy.” But it’s not accurate. It is a baby. We use different terms for different stages of life. We call a child a toddler or an adolescent a teenager. Those designations describe a stage of development - they don’t change the value or humanity of the person. Killing an innocent person is always wrong.
Allie Beth Stuckey195,733 görüntüleme • 1 ay önce
One year without Charlie. It still doesn’t feel real. What a life, what a testimony. We miss you.
Allie Beth Stuckey35,356 görüntüleme • 6 gün önce
Here you are singing the praises of a female pastor and prosperity preacher, Paula White. Did you pay the $1,000 she was asking for in exchange for a “special Passover blessing?” Just wondering! I get it - a podcaster affirming that Jesus was Jewish and that all people, Jew and Gentile, must go to Him for salvation is just too far for you. You’re a shapeshifter, Calvin. Unmoored and unreliable. The faithful deserve better from their clergy.
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The Billy Graham Center Research Institute surveyed Gen Z adults, and 48% agreed with this statement: "Christians' support of Trump has made me less likely to go to church." There may be many reasons a person won’t go to church, but most of the reasons people give are excuses. The main reason, I think, is this: we are uncomfortable seeing our own sin and our need for a Savior. Apologists Give Me An Answer and I discuss:
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David French says he is furious at the Republican Party and claims abortions went up under Trump. I asked, “What did he do that caused abortions to rise?” French: “What I'm saying is, as I said earlier, this is a man who contributed to extraordinary growth in libertinism, especially on the right.” “Okay, do we have data that shows us that it's more people on the right that were getting abortions under Donald Trump?” French: “We don't have data.”
Allie Beth Stuckey562,865 görüntüleme • 5 ay önce
Last year, David French received backlash for calling his trans-identified male colleague, “she.” In 2018, he’d written that calling a man by female pronouns is a lie he couldn’t participate in. I asked him about this seeming change. “Do you equate calling a man who identifies as a woman “he” as being unkind?” French: “I don’t see the value in saying something that I know and they know is going to be hurtful to them. It’s just normal, complete politeness and manners.”
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Liberal Justice Elena Kagan reportedly threw a HUGE temper tantrum over the publication of the Dobbs decision. She was screaming at Justice Breyer so loud that “the walls were shaking,” Mollie tells me. Despite threats to the lives of the conservative justices, Kagan was adamant about delaying the publication of the decision as long as possible. Mollie has all the juicy details about the infamous Dobbs leak and the drama that unfolded afterward:
Allie Beth Stuckey472,052 görüntüleme • 4 ay önce
A South Carolina pastor is causing buzz online by telling his aging congregants that hell isn’t real and that “queer is God’s design.” How does a Christian refute such wild statements by progressives? The same way that Jesus refuted Satan: “It is written” and to the Pharisees: “Have you not read?” God’s Word tells us exactly how to debunk these kinds of “sermons.” I go through each of His claims with responses you can use with those in your life who believe this nonsense.
Allie Beth Stuckey183,852 görüntüleme • 1 ay önce
When she goes to events, you demand she stays home. When she stays home, you question her motives. Whether she laughs, cries, or shows anger, it’s always too much or not enough. Erika’s not only ruthlessly condemned, she’s relentlessly mocked as if she’s not a real person navigating massive loss. Yes, she’s a public figure, and as such she will receive critiques and questions. But if you can’t do that without hostility, without dehumanizing her, you’ve got a soul-level sickness that needs to be addressed.
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Former band members from the popular 90's CCM band Avalon have re-released the song "Testify To Love" as an LGBTQ affirming anthem and claim it's always has been about queer love. One of those former members, Melissa Greene, writes in her Substack post alongside photos of another band member kissing his husband at the altar that "love is for everyone" and "Michael never needed to be redeemed. He was always whole and worthy." This phenomenon of believing that we are somehow nicer than God, that Romans 1 is too harsh or that passages affirming the holiness of marriage between one man and one woman are simply too difficult to accept, is false. We go to God's word for what's true about sexuality and marriage. If something in the Word of God seems wrong, cruel, or confusing to us, the problem is not with God. It’s not with His Word. It’s with us.
Allie Beth Stuckey307,113 görüntüleme • 3 ay önce
Vice President JD Vance shares the exact moment he found out Usha was pregnant with their fourth child. “I came home pretty late that night. I go to the bathroom to take off my suit, and there's one of the instant tests there with a positive. And that was how Usha told me. I remember I was so excited." After Charlie was assassinated, he says a heartbreaking and tearful conversation with Erika on the flight from Utah to Arizona led him and Usha to try for a fourth baby. Six weeks later, they were expecting.
Allie Beth Stuckey228,909 görüntüleme • 2 ay önce
When it comes to the Lindsay Clancy trial, multiple things are true. 1. Doctors don’t take seriously enough the danger of SSRIs. Clancy was prescribed 13 different medications - taken sporadically - by six different doctors and nurses in a period of four months. Most of these medications came with the potential side effects of worsening depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts. Many of the medications had interactions with each other. 2. The drugs and her possible psychosis do not automatically absolve her from guilt. She carefully planned her children’s murders and she carried them out methodically. The strength and resolve required to strangle toddlers and an infant one by one may demonstrate a willful, knowing plan to kill. We cannot know for sure whether these medications are the primary or even secondary cause of her actions. 3. Most people who commit violent crimes likely suffer from some level of mental sickness. That doesn’t negate the need for justice. 4. We should take more seriously the effects of postpartum psychosis and/or depression. There was no reason for Lindsay ever to be left alone with her children. This likely could have been prevented. 5. Millions of women suffer from mental breakdowns postpartum and do not murder their children with exercise bands. What precedent does it set if she’s deemed legally irresponsible and is able to be released from psychiatric care for just a few years - after committing triple homicide? 6. Most important: the primary victims are the CHILDREN. They deserve most of our compassion. Their pain should be our primary focus. My full analysis:
Allie Beth Stuckey107,254 görüntüleme • 1 ay önce
Unity is good, but truth is better. And sometimes, truth divides. Why does this happen so much more on the right than on the left? Because the left is seeking to destroy - the church, the family, the West - and destruction requires little agreement. Use whatever tool you want, however you want. Just take it down. But, on the right, we’re seeking to build something. And when you’re building something, you have to agree on a lot. What are you building? What materials should you use? Which tools? And, most importantly, what’s our foundation? As Christians, we hold that the foundation of any flourishing civilization is that we were created in the image of a God whose power transcends the government’s. He alone is the giver of rights and the determinant of right and wrong. We can’t compromise on that, because without that truth, nothing else in conservatism holds together. Our job isn’t to compromise on our foundation for the sake of “unity.” It’s to do everything we can to pull people over to our side—to what’s good, right, and true.
Allie Beth Stuckey586,252 görüntüleme • 8 ay önce
I didn’t have “Hillary Clinton writing a hit piece on me” on my list of 2026 predictions, but here we are! I also didn’t expect her criticisms of me to be theological in nature, especially considering her long record of unconditional support of abortion and other far-left causes, though I’m always happy to discuss Biblical truth with anyone. Today I’m addressing her mischaracterizations and criticisms with the hope of offering clarity on the difference between Christian compassion and toxic empathy. Hillary Clinton, I hope to hear from you.
Allie Beth Stuckey492,746 görüntüleme • 7 ay önce