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Dan Wuori, Ph.D. | Author, The Daycare Myth: What We Get Wrong About Early Care and Education (and What We Should Do About It) available now from @TCPress

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Read to your newborn. 📚 With hearing developing during the final months of gestation, it’s never too early to begin reading to your baby. And this mom is giving us an absolute master class in how to do it right. Note first that she’s reading face-to-face. At this age (10 weeks), there is literally nothing more thrilling - or instructional - to your newborn than your face. Check out how intently focused baby is on mom’s voice and facial expressions. Mom reads with expression and emotion, alternating between glances at the text and direct eye contact with her adoring audience of one. And there is so much going on in that developing brain. Did you know that during the earliest years of life babies form new neural connections at an estimated 1 million per SECOND? With these types of rich daily interactions, mom is setting her baby up for a lifetime of success. Kudos to KelseyPaumer (IG) on this fantastic and educational 🎥 clip.

Read to your newborn. 📚 With hearing developing during the final months of gestation, it’s never too early to begin reading to your baby. And this mom is giving us an absolute master class in how to do it right. Note first that she’s reading face-to-face. At this age (10 weeks), there is literally nothing more thrilling - or instructional - to your newborn than your face. Check out how intently focused baby is on mom’s voice and facial expressions. Mom reads with expression and emotion, alternating between glances at the text and direct eye contact with her adoring audience of one. And there is so much going on in that developing brain. Did you know that during the earliest years of life babies form new neural connections at an estimated 1 million per SECOND? With these types of rich daily interactions, mom is setting her baby up for a lifetime of success. Kudos to KelseyPaumer (IG) on this fantastic and educational 🎥 clip.

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Don’t take it personally, Mom. Cross cultural research suggests that “Dada” is very commonly the first person that babies identify by name. And the reason may actually be beautiful. But first let’s explore the question of when a word is really a word. Language development begins with cooing and the babbling of repetitious syllables. “Dada” is very commonly one of these initial vocalizations, even before the child actually associates it with a particular meaning. (Sorry, Dad, but it’s probably not an expression of preference.) Around 9-12 months, however, babies do start associating meaning with sounds. And dad frequently IS first in line here. Why? One theory is that babies are so closely bonded to their mothers early in life that they actually view their mothers as an extension of themselves. This line of thinking suggests that Dad may be identified first because he’s the first person identifiable outside of this precious mother-baby unit. So not only is the identification of fathers likely not an expression of preference, it actually may say something very special about just how closely mother and baby are bonded. And that’s amazing. ❤️ Who did your child identify first? 🎥 alyssaberryxx TT

Don’t take it personally, Mom. Cross cultural research suggests that “Dada” is very commonly the first person that babies identify by name. And the reason may actually be beautiful. But first let’s explore the question of when a word is really a word. Language development begins with cooing and the babbling of repetitious syllables. “Dada” is very commonly one of these initial vocalizations, even before the child actually associates it with a particular meaning. (Sorry, Dad, but it’s probably not an expression of preference.) Around 9-12 months, however, babies do start associating meaning with sounds. And dad frequently IS first in line here. Why? One theory is that babies are so closely bonded to their mothers early in life that they actually view their mothers as an extension of themselves. This line of thinking suggests that Dad may be identified first because he’s the first person identifiable outside of this precious mother-baby unit. So not only is the identification of fathers likely not an expression of preference, it actually may say something very special about just how closely mother and baby are bonded. And that’s amazing. ❤️ Who did your child identify first? 🎥 alyssaberryxx TT

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Want to light up your baby’s brain? Think “serve and return.” 🎾 Much like a tennis match, serve and return entails back and forth interaction during which adult and child trade conversational (and other expressive) turns. This father/daughter duo provide a fantastic example. Only 8 weeks old, baby “serves” by reaching out for her father’s attention - making eye contact, sticking out her tongue, and cooing. Her adoring and attentive dad, meanwhile, “returns” - mimicking and extending her cues and vocalizations. As the two participate in this mutual exchange, neural connections are strengthened that support the development of baby’s communication and social skills. More than just your physical presence, your baby needs your undivided attention - so be mindful of screen time and other distractions and engage your little one face-to-face. The dividends will be huge. This fantastic 🎥- and model father/daughter exchange - via giannaspapabear on IG.

Want to light up your baby’s brain? Think “serve and return.” 🎾 Much like a tennis match, serve and return entails back and forth interaction during which adult and child trade conversational (and other expressive) turns. This father/daughter duo provide a fantastic example. Only 8 weeks old, baby “serves” by reaching out for her father’s attention - making eye contact, sticking out her tongue, and cooing. Her adoring and attentive dad, meanwhile, “returns” - mimicking and extending her cues and vocalizations. As the two participate in this mutual exchange, neural connections are strengthened that support the development of baby’s communication and social skills. More than just your physical presence, your baby needs your undivided attention - so be mindful of screen time and other distractions and engage your little one face-to-face. The dividends will be huge. This fantastic 🎥- and model father/daughter exchange - via giannaspapabear on IG.

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Your baby craves your attention and affection. 😍 Check out this little guy. Mom has plopped him onto the bed. His mission: Wake up Dad. But our hero has other plans. Rather than speak, he assesses the situation, curls up next to his father, and pulls his arm into position for a cuddle. In this moment, there could be nothing better than the feel of his father’s love. _____ Sometimes children’s behaviors are dismissed - or even disparaged - as “attention seeking.” While they may be just that, know that your baby NEEDS your attention. And craves your affection. These are never gifts to be withheld from an infant. Your time, your interest, your interaction are all critical to your baby’s healthy development. And to your mutual attachment. So give them without reservation and watch the results. This sweet interaction was shared to IG by louise.thompson.

Your baby craves your attention and affection. 😍 Check out this little guy. Mom has plopped him onto the bed. His mission: Wake up Dad. But our hero has other plans. Rather than speak, he assesses the situation, curls up next to his father, and pulls his arm into position for a cuddle. In this moment, there could be nothing better than the feel of his father’s love. _____ Sometimes children’s behaviors are dismissed - or even disparaged - as “attention seeking.” While they may be just that, know that your baby NEEDS your attention. And craves your affection. These are never gifts to be withheld from an infant. Your time, your interest, your interaction are all critical to your baby’s healthy development. And to your mutual attachment. So give them without reservation and watch the results. This sweet interaction was shared to IG by louise.thompson.

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You’re never too busy to show kindness to a child. When this preschooler showed up for a race (on his pedal-less strider bike) at the local BMX park, his family discovered that he was the only one in his age group to attend. A group of teenagers there to compete in their own age bracket provided some “competition.” And, would you believe it… the little guy won. Be like these kids. Such goodness on display. This lovely film via thethriftedmini on IG.

You’re never too busy to show kindness to a child. When this preschooler showed up for a race (on his pedal-less strider bike) at the local BMX park, his family discovered that he was the only one in his age group to attend. A group of teenagers there to compete in their own age bracket provided some “competition.” And, would you believe it… the little guy won. Be like these kids. Such goodness on display. This lovely film via thethriftedmini on IG.

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Children learn what they live. When morning sickness overcame this mom, her toddler stepped in to provide comfort and support - modeling the very same language and behavior to which she, herself, has grown accustomed. There’s nothing being given here that this sweet little one hasn’t also received in abundance - and that’s a beautiful tribute to mom herself. Want your child to be a model of kindness? Compassion? Be a living example. (And feel better mom.) This little apprentice in caring was shared to TT by katherinexhagen.

Children learn what they live. When morning sickness overcame this mom, her toddler stepped in to provide comfort and support - modeling the very same language and behavior to which she, herself, has grown accustomed. There’s nothing being given here that this sweet little one hasn’t also received in abundance - and that’s a beautiful tribute to mom herself. Want your child to be a model of kindness? Compassion? Be a living example. (And feel better mom.) This little apprentice in caring was shared to TT by katherinexhagen.

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What a thrill to watch your child take their first steps. But I want to spotlight something else about this video: the sheer perfection of the support system created by its adults. They teach us a lesson about learning that extends far beyond walking. If you watch closely, you’ll find that mom and grandpa have created a scenario in which baby is challenged to the limits of her ability AND provided the supports needed to guarantee her success. From the moment grandpa lets go, mom’s waiting arms are close enough that baby’s safety is ensured. She literally can’t fall. But watch what mom does as the baby finds success: She slowly retracts her arms and even begins to lean backward ever so subtly - extending baby’s runway while maintaining this safety net. As a result, what might have been journey of 1-2 steps was extended to 5-6. Simply fantastic. This is how all learning takes place: just beyond the limits of our prior success - and with scaffolding from caregivers, teachers, and more capable peers who help propel us just a little bit further than we’ve ever gone before. Is you child working to master something new? How might you adapt the lessons of this video to scaffold their success? 🎥 sean.nicol IG

What a thrill to watch your child take their first steps. But I want to spotlight something else about this video: the sheer perfection of the support system created by its adults. They teach us a lesson about learning that extends far beyond walking. If you watch closely, you’ll find that mom and grandpa have created a scenario in which baby is challenged to the limits of her ability AND provided the supports needed to guarantee her success. From the moment grandpa lets go, mom’s waiting arms are close enough that baby’s safety is ensured. She literally can’t fall. But watch what mom does as the baby finds success: She slowly retracts her arms and even begins to lean backward ever so subtly - extending baby’s runway while maintaining this safety net. As a result, what might have been journey of 1-2 steps was extended to 5-6. Simply fantastic. This is how all learning takes place: just beyond the limits of our prior success - and with scaffolding from caregivers, teachers, and more capable peers who help propel us just a little bit further than we’ve ever gone before. Is you child working to master something new? How might you adapt the lessons of this video to scaffold their success? 🎥 sean.nicol IG

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“Hi baby girl!” Imitation is a critical driver of early language development. I dare you not to smile at this amazing serve and return conversation between Ali and her mother.

“Hi baby girl!” Imitation is a critical driver of early language development. I dare you not to smile at this amazing serve and return conversation between Ali and her mother.

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My books go here now. 📚 Toddler behaviors can sometimes seem difficult to interpret - but, in truth, often follow common patterns or “schemas.” Schemas are most commonly associated with Jean Piaget, the Swiss psychologist who coined the term decades ago. But over the intervening years, researchers have identified at least 9 common toddler play patterns. Which brings us to this little cutie, who is engaged in one of them: Transporting. As toddlers become mobile, they develop a keen interest in moving themselves - and other objects - from place to place. This behavior remains common well into the preschool years. Ever wonder why household items miraculously end up at school? Or why your preschooler’s pockets are full of rocks? As random as it can seem, it’s all a part of their play. Blame the transporting schema. Transporting can be frustrating at times, like when an entire pile of books appears in your hallway - but it helps to understand that this isn’t just your toddler creating chaos. It’s them learning and growing - and following a predictable toddler urge. This great example was posted to TT by sammci9.

My books go here now. 📚 Toddler behaviors can sometimes seem difficult to interpret - but, in truth, often follow common patterns or “schemas.” Schemas are most commonly associated with Jean Piaget, the Swiss psychologist who coined the term decades ago. But over the intervening years, researchers have identified at least 9 common toddler play patterns. Which brings us to this little cutie, who is engaged in one of them: Transporting. As toddlers become mobile, they develop a keen interest in moving themselves - and other objects - from place to place. This behavior remains common well into the preschool years. Ever wonder why household items miraculously end up at school? Or why your preschooler’s pockets are full of rocks? As random as it can seem, it’s all a part of their play. Blame the transporting schema. Transporting can be frustrating at times, like when an entire pile of books appears in your hallway - but it helps to understand that this isn’t just your toddler creating chaos. It’s them learning and growing - and following a predictable toddler urge. This great example was posted to TT by sammci9.

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Imagine consuming primarily milk and puréed vegetables your entire life, then trying ice cream for the very first time. I can’t stop watching this little one’s reaction. 😄

Imagine consuming primarily milk and puréed vegetables your entire life, then trying ice cream for the very first time. I can’t stop watching this little one’s reaction. 😄

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What are your family’s grandparent names? Some are self-chosen. Some are bestowed. And some of the best and most original are those earned over time, often based on children’s early mispronunciations. So today let’s have some fun. Are you (or does your baby have) a Grammy? A Memaw? A PopPop? A Big Daddy? Lay it on me! Bonus points for the most original. (This funny little Grandpa’s Boy was shared to TT by marissalafferty.)

What are your family’s grandparent names? Some are self-chosen. Some are bestowed. And some of the best and most original are those earned over time, often based on children’s early mispronunciations. So today let’s have some fun. Are you (or does your baby have) a Grammy? A Memaw? A PopPop? A Big Daddy? Lay it on me! Bonus points for the most original. (This funny little Grandpa’s Boy was shared to TT by marissalafferty.)

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It’s a reasonable question: Of all the playthings they have to choose from, why are babies so drawn to baby dolls? The answer is that young children’s early play closely mirrors their day-to-day experience: feeding and care routines, hugging, kissing, and bedtime. So what better plaything than a baby of their own? Playing with dolls nurtures a host of skills - fostering language and motor development, creative thinking, and social- emotional development. Doll play also contributes to self-regulation. As they soothe and comfort their dolls, babies are practicing the same skills needed to comfort themselves. And what a tender and thoughtful caretaker this little cutie is. After putting her doll to sleep, she is cognizant of the need for quiet - and ready to enforce it! Did/does your child have a favorite doll? What benefits do you see? 🎥 last1knights IG

It’s a reasonable question: Of all the playthings they have to choose from, why are babies so drawn to baby dolls? The answer is that young children’s early play closely mirrors their day-to-day experience: feeding and care routines, hugging, kissing, and bedtime. So what better plaything than a baby of their own? Playing with dolls nurtures a host of skills - fostering language and motor development, creative thinking, and social- emotional development. Doll play also contributes to self-regulation. As they soothe and comfort their dolls, babies are practicing the same skills needed to comfort themselves. And what a tender and thoughtful caretaker this little cutie is. After putting her doll to sleep, she is cognizant of the need for quiet - and ready to enforce it! Did/does your child have a favorite doll? What benefits do you see? 🎥 last1knights IG

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Your baby knows your voice, even before they enter the world. As the senses activate between 24-26 weeks of gestation, the tone of our own mothers’ voice is one of the very first things we experience as humans (second only to her heartbeat, most likely). And a whole host of research (which you’ll be able to learn about in my next book, Wonderment) documents their recognition of - and preference for - mom’s voice while still in utero. But my favorite study on this topic measured this preference in the days immediately following birth. Using a specially rigged electronic pacifier, researchers established a baseline rate of sucking for each participating infant… then they inserted a new variable. When the newborns began sucking faster than their baseline, a recording of their own mother’s voice (reading a story) was activated. If they began to suck more slowly, a stranger’s voice would read the same passages. 80% of the children in the study successfully modified their behavior to hear their own mother’s voice. The next day these kids were brought back to try again, only this time the situation was reversed. This time to hear their mother they had to suck more slowly. And after some experimentation, 100% successfully modified their behaviors to privilege the sweetest sound they knew: their own mom’s voice. I loved this video from the Leslie Rodriguez on IG that shows baby’s response at 3 weeks. Rest assured she knew and loved your voice even before you met!

Your baby knows your voice, even before they enter the world. As the senses activate between 24-26 weeks of gestation, the tone of our own mothers’ voice is one of the very first things we experience as humans (second only to her heartbeat, most likely). And a whole host of research (which you’ll be able to learn about in my next book, Wonderment) documents their recognition of - and preference for - mom’s voice while still in utero. But my favorite study on this topic measured this preference in the days immediately following birth. Using a specially rigged electronic pacifier, researchers established a baseline rate of sucking for each participating infant… then they inserted a new variable. When the newborns began sucking faster than their baseline, a recording of their own mother’s voice (reading a story) was activated. If they began to suck more slowly, a stranger’s voice would read the same passages. 80% of the children in the study successfully modified their behavior to hear their own mother’s voice. The next day these kids were brought back to try again, only this time the situation was reversed. This time to hear their mother they had to suck more slowly. And after some experimentation, 100% successfully modified their behaviors to privilege the sweetest sound they knew: their own mom’s voice. I loved this video from the Leslie Rodriguez on IG that shows baby’s response at 3 weeks. Rest assured she knew and loved your voice even before you met!

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Think of early childhood as an apprenticeship. Young children arrive in this world as skilled observers and mimics of the significant adults in their lives. Their goal: to be more like you with each passing day. What you do, they will do. What you say, they will say - both outwardly and to/about themselves. So think carefully about what you are teaching… not just formally, but as you live each day together. Just like this sweet little one, your apprentice is always watching, listening, and learning. 🎥 mrs.cihedigbo IG

Think of early childhood as an apprenticeship. Young children arrive in this world as skilled observers and mimics of the significant adults in their lives. Their goal: to be more like you with each passing day. What you do, they will do. What you say, they will say - both outwardly and to/about themselves. So think carefully about what you are teaching… not just formally, but as you live each day together. Just like this sweet little one, your apprentice is always watching, listening, and learning. 🎥 mrs.cihedigbo IG

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The doors on the bus go open and shut… 🚌 🎶 For toddlers, music and movement are more than just entertainment. Beat, rhythm, and tempo all stimulate children’s developing brains - helping body and mind to work together in coordination. Repetitive songs like “The Wheels on the Bus” also help children with important pre-reading skills like pattern recognition and auditory discrimination (the ability to distinguish between separate sounds). There’s little question that the song is engaging this little one’s brain (while also boosting his mood). Watch as he anticipates and carefully times his “open and shut” movements. There’s a lot of brain power on display in this joyful video, posted to IG by jackielegss.

The doors on the bus go open and shut… 🚌 🎶 For toddlers, music and movement are more than just entertainment. Beat, rhythm, and tempo all stimulate children’s developing brains - helping body and mind to work together in coordination. Repetitive songs like “The Wheels on the Bus” also help children with important pre-reading skills like pattern recognition and auditory discrimination (the ability to distinguish between separate sounds). There’s little question that the song is engaging this little one’s brain (while also boosting his mood). Watch as he anticipates and carefully times his “open and shut” movements. There’s a lot of brain power on display in this joyful video, posted to IG by jackielegss.

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There’s a reason that baby dolls, toy kitchen sets, and play vacuum cleaners are all popular sellers. That’s because your toddler’s imaginary play begins close to home…. Not as an astronaut or princess, but as the person they know best (and adore most): YOU. And while these are great choices when it comes to playtime, don’t overlook daily opportunities for your little one to participate alongside you in the real world. Safety comes first, of course, so mind the butcher knives and glassware… but can your toddler help unload plastic bowls? Transport laundry items? Sweep? Absolutely. Will it take longer and be less efficient? Also yes. But efficiency isn’t the point here. Connection and apprenticeship are. This lovely video shared to FB Reels by Julie Anne Boyer brings the whole idea to life. It’s a whole collection of safe and well-supervised, “mini-me” examples. What other safe and appropriate household tasks does your little one enjoy “helping” with?

There’s a reason that baby dolls, toy kitchen sets, and play vacuum cleaners are all popular sellers. That’s because your toddler’s imaginary play begins close to home…. Not as an astronaut or princess, but as the person they know best (and adore most): YOU. And while these are great choices when it comes to playtime, don’t overlook daily opportunities for your little one to participate alongside you in the real world. Safety comes first, of course, so mind the butcher knives and glassware… but can your toddler help unload plastic bowls? Transport laundry items? Sweep? Absolutely. Will it take longer and be less efficient? Also yes. But efficiency isn’t the point here. Connection and apprenticeship are. This lovely video shared to FB Reels by Julie Anne Boyer brings the whole idea to life. It’s a whole collection of safe and well-supervised, “mini-me” examples. What other safe and appropriate household tasks does your little one enjoy “helping” with?

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Want to prepare your baby for a lifetime of success? Make literacy a priority from the start. Surround your child with spoken and written language. Speak, read, sing. And model reading as a skill - and interest - of your own. (Remember there’s nobody your child wants to emulate more than you.) I love what this family has created, adding literacy to their daily mealtime routines. After each meal, the children hear books read aloud - which is followed by a short period of independent exploration with books. Look at how attentive these little guys are. At this age, start small… even a minute or two at a time can help start a lifetime habit. And never forget that literacy learning begins long before children enter kindergarten. Want them to do well in school? Don’t wait until they get there to begin. Does/did your baby have favorite board books? I’d love to add them to my list. This highly literate lunchtime was posted to IG by zaintwinzz.

Want to prepare your baby for a lifetime of success? Make literacy a priority from the start. Surround your child with spoken and written language. Speak, read, sing. And model reading as a skill - and interest - of your own. (Remember there’s nobody your child wants to emulate more than you.) I love what this family has created, adding literacy to their daily mealtime routines. After each meal, the children hear books read aloud - which is followed by a short period of independent exploration with books. Look at how attentive these little guys are. At this age, start small… even a minute or two at a time can help start a lifetime habit. And never forget that literacy learning begins long before children enter kindergarten. Want them to do well in school? Don’t wait until they get there to begin. Does/did your baby have favorite board books? I’d love to add them to my list. This highly literate lunchtime was posted to IG by zaintwinzz.

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Sweetest duet ever. As infants progress through the “babbling” phase of language development, their approximations become more and more complex. Even before they use words conventionally, babies’ expressions begin sounding more and more like adult speech. Their vocalizations take on a rhythm and phrasing. And they begin expressing themselves with differing tones of voice. Check out this little one - who has not only nailed all of the examples above, but has also developed a remarkable sense of musicality. The developing 🧠 is just amazing. 🎥 rafealmatoos IG

Sweetest duet ever. As infants progress through the “babbling” phase of language development, their approximations become more and more complex. Even before they use words conventionally, babies’ expressions begin sounding more and more like adult speech. Their vocalizations take on a rhythm and phrasing. And they begin expressing themselves with differing tones of voice. Check out this little one - who has not only nailed all of the examples above, but has also developed a remarkable sense of musicality. The developing 🧠 is just amazing. 🎥 rafealmatoos IG

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Get a load of this sweet little “puppy!” 🐶 Infants are masterful observers and mimics of the environments and key figures in the world around them. It’s how they learn. And that can extend beyond their human relatives. Watch how this little one practices sticking out her tongue - and panting - in the style of the family dog. It’s a complex (two part) impersonation - and one that show’s baby’s growing analytical skills and control over her body. Too cool! Have you ever noticed your baby imitating a beloved pet? What did they do? This sweet video was shared by ridgeplay on IG.

Get a load of this sweet little “puppy!” 🐶 Infants are masterful observers and mimics of the environments and key figures in the world around them. It’s how they learn. And that can extend beyond their human relatives. Watch how this little one practices sticking out her tongue - and panting - in the style of the family dog. It’s a complex (two part) impersonation - and one that show’s baby’s growing analytical skills and control over her body. Too cool! Have you ever noticed your baby imitating a beloved pet? What did they do? This sweet video was shared by ridgeplay on IG.

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“No, Brin Brin kiss it!”💋 As they emerge from infancy, toddlers find themselves in a whole new ballgame. Once dependent on others, they now have the language and emerging skill set to begin doing all sorts of things on their own. This often leads to a period of fierce independence around 18 months - in which many toddlers insist on doing EVERYTHING for themselves. This video has always been my favorite example. This little one has bumped her forehead. Mom offers a kiss to make it feel better, but our hero insists that she kiss herself. On her own forehead. 🤣 Isn’t this just the BEST?

“No, Brin Brin kiss it!”💋 As they emerge from infancy, toddlers find themselves in a whole new ballgame. Once dependent on others, they now have the language and emerging skill set to begin doing all sorts of things on their own. This often leads to a period of fierce independence around 18 months - in which many toddlers insist on doing EVERYTHING for themselves. This video has always been my favorite example. This little one has bumped her forehead. Mom offers a kiss to make it feel better, but our hero insists that she kiss herself. On her own forehead. 🤣 Isn’t this just the BEST?

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Wait… what?? This newborn caught mom and grandma off guard by displaying what appeared to be some very advanced skills. After all, most babies begin crawling between 6-10 months… so seeing this at just 3 DAYS? What gives?! What you’re seeing here IS, in fact, miraculous - but also very common to newborns. It’s known as the breast crawl. At birth, babies are equipped by nature with a special set of skills (reflexes) designed to help them thrive and survive in their new surroundings. The breast crawl combines several of these reflexes in a coordinated effort to find food. What you’re seeing is a combination of the stepping and rooting reflexes, typically demonstrated while baby is laying face down on mom’s stomach. The stepping reflex is activated when the soles of the feet come in contact with a solid surface… usually mom’s abdomen (but in this case the wall of the bassinet) and encourages alternating limb movement designed to help baby shimmy up mom’s chest toward the breast. The rooting reflex, meanwhile, stimulates baby to turn their head in the direction of contact with the face (in search of the nipple). Babies’ eyesight remains poor at this stage, but nature has equipped them with one more advantage: the ability to sniff out the smell of mother’s milk. Small bumps on the mother’s areola known as Montgomery Glands emit a scent that helps guide baby to the food they are seeking. Ultimately what you see in this fantastic video (posted to TT by samantha_elizabeth_) is not a baby about to start crawling across the room, but a hungry newborn using all the tools at their disposal to help find nourishment. And that may be even more amazing!

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As a parent, lap reading is a joy. It’s a chance to cuddle your little one, while exposing them to rich vocabulary, concepts of print, and the wonder of books. When it comes to infants, however, lap reading can deprive babies of their favorite (and most important) sight: YOU. Which is why you might want to explore face-to-face reading as well. (With your baby facing toward you and the book simultaneously.) Developmentally, there are multiple benefits to allowing your baby to see you as you read together. Your little one is an expert at “reading” your face. This posture allows your baby to track your eyes to discover what you’re tuning in to. It also allows them to watch your mouth and learn how you’re making the words and sounds that accompany the pictures. This clever little one illustrates the case beautifully, creating a face-to-face experience of her own. Watch as our hero divides her attention between the book (and her important page turning responsibility!) and dad’s face - which she swivels her head to admire with equal (if not greater) interest. Kudos to dad, as well, as he balances book time and face time with his daughter - taking time to honor her interest in connection and observation. The logistics can obviously be a little trickier (consider reading face-to-face as your partner holds baby in their lap as one potential solution) - but the benefits are well worth the effort. Face-to-face reading for the win! This adorable father-daughter duo was shared to IG by mylittlemissameliaa.

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It’s a snake! 🐍 NO…it’s a BACON! 🥓 Is your child prone to irrational fears? When one of these triplets drops a piece of bacon on the kitchen floor, anxiety and tears ensue when her sister determines it looks like - and thus must ACTUALLY BE - a snake. Suddenly none of the three is comfortable picking it up… including the child who was literally just eating it. What causes her to rethink her own experience? Young children can be very susceptible to suggestion. Here, not only has her sister suggested that the stray bacon might actually be a snake, but is visibly agitated by the possibility - leading our hero to question even her own experience. What’s the best way to handle such fears as a parent? First, recognize that irrational fears are still fears. Treat your child’s concerns as valid - even when they may seem silly to you as an adult. Next, offer - and model - reassurance. Your own calmness will be an important cue to your child that they are not in danger. Finally, help your child to problem solve. Your questions and guidance are invaluable. In this case you might offer something like, “Oh isn’t that interesting? Snakes do sometimes look squiggly like that. But wasn’t this just in your hand? You ate it, right? And you wouldn’t have eaten a snake. I tell you what, let’s go take a closer look at it together and check it out!” And then file it away as a great family story. 🙂 These adorable little bacon lovers were shared to IG by alyssa_mcewen.

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