Gia Macool
@GiaMMacool • 262,858 subscribers
Great relationships aren't found. They're built. Teaching skills modern dating forgot. Author | Married 25+ Years ↓ Coaching
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Every day, the same man comes to talk to me between sets. He greets everyone at the gym the same way and loves to critique fitness and talk about his family. Not everyone entertains him, which I find is sad. Today, he said something to me that I think more people in gym culture need to hear. He said, "I'm an 86-year-old man who struggles to make it to the gym every day, and it's youngsters like you who make me smile, making my whole day worth living." I hope that the next time you're at the gym, you'll take a moment to encourage strangers. I hope you understand that the world doesn't revolve around just you; other people struggle too. Taking the time to hear others, matters. ❤️
Gia Macool10,135,013 views • 2 years ago
Most women assume that when a man goes silent... He doesn't care about her. FALSE. What if he's actually carrying something he doesn't know how to put into words? What if the thing you're calling defiance... is really shame? Ladies, You need to understand this: 👇 When a man goes silent, most women interpret it as abandonment, neglect and disrespect. She demands, “Why don’t you talk to me?” Not realizing that, to him, it can feel like being trapped. Like a caged animal. And when a caged animal is cornered? Violence can become the outcome. When a man has carried the responsibilities of a committed relationship... but is told he has failed in her eyes... he starts to feel like nothing he does is ever good enough for her. For a man, respect is earned. Through competency. Hard work. Courage. Responsibility. If he has committed to those things... but still believes he hasn't earned your respect... he feels masculine shame. And shame naturally causes withdrawal. One of the worst things for a man is to feel vulnerable... in a place where he already feels small. Women often don't understand this... because when women feel shame, they cry. They talk. They rationalize. They lean into being the "weaker vessel." Men don't have that same outlet. So they go silent. They numb themselves with work. Porn. Alcohol. Drugs. Or anything that helps them escape what they don't know how to fix. It's not that he doesn't care about you. On the contrary... he often cares too much. How does a woman make a man feel disrespected? If she asked for honesty... and reacted badly when he gave it... he remembers. If she asked him for something... and he genuinely tried to make it happen... but failed... he remembers. If she rolled her eyes at something he said... he remembers. He files every one of those moments away... into a folder of self-hate. Until one day... it bursts open in aggression. And suddenly she's shocked by a reaction... that had been building for years. So what do you do? You don't rock him like a baby. You can't breastfeed him. You don't stand in the doorway so he can't leave. You don't pick up the pieces for him. You don't try to solve the problem for him. You don't say, "Why won't you talk to me?" You simply give him space. And say: "I'm not your enemy. I don't need you to fix anything. I just need to know you're still here." Then... step aside. And let him go. That reminds him he's safe to show up in this relationship as a man... even when he's not at his best. That's when the cold space he's holding onto begins to thaw. And you remind him... that he's still in control of himself... instead of attacking his silence.
Gia Macool212,163 views • 1 month ago
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Anyone who hates this guy, really just hates themselves. You can’t dislike someone who started from nothing, showed up regardless of the outcomes, worked harder than most, lost with dignity and came out a better person. That’s not just inspiring… That’s someone who refused to be held back regardless of their failures. It’s the definition of resilience & courage. And a lesson for all to keep going.
Gia Macool905,489 views • 8 months ago
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Women love venting and expanding problems which creates drama. Men hear a problem and want to fix it fast. This is why female-dominated therapy (72% women) fails marriages. Stop wasting your time on female marriage counseling. They reward talking forever and blaming the husband instead of gym + sex + action. Video nails it.👇
Gia Macool187,032 views • 3 months ago
I actually agree that Disney movies programmed little girls. But NOT the way she’s describing it. Disney taught girls that Prince Charming was supposed to save her. In reality, a relationship requires both sides to take responsibility and women are supposed to protect and support their man just as much as he protects them. It’s funny how feminists took that script and completely rewrote it so men are once again the only ones to blame 🤦🏻♀️ This woman is telling other women that the highest form of womanhood is rejecting everything feminine or desirable… for a man. That idea is pure evil. Feminism preaches: • Beauty is “oppression.” “Be beautiful… but never for a man.” • Softness is “weakness.” “Have a voice… but never let it serve anything bigger than yourself.” • “Be independent… until you’re 40, used up, and wondering why no one stayed.” That’s why feminists teach other women to treat masculinity like a disease. And the girls who buy it the hardest are usually the ones who end up the most alone.
Gia Macool18,384 views • 8 days ago
This isn’t a red flag… It’s a full-blown grenade strapped to your chest 👀
Gia Macool488,984 views • 9 months ago
AI-generated content made by men to attract male audiences will hit every category: podcasting, streaming, politics and adult platforms into 2026 This tweet will age well Some think this will push real women offline but they underestimate the market and the purpose of this agenda Women won’t disappear; women will use AI to work faster and produce more content the only difference is now they don’t need to be in front of the screen to monetize. The result? The internet will be flooded with quantity over quality The Amazon experience 🤣
Gia Macool305,678 views • 8 months ago
It's no surprise that men are walking away from American women. The men I know, who are either dating or married, met their wives outside of the United States. These men are financially successful, tall, attractive, and very fit. They could easily marry a woman from the West, but they've all told me that the attitude of American women is a major turn-off. If women don't get it together soon, there will be a lot of lonely women. Men know women use their sexuality to measure their worth and lack what’s needed for a long-term relationship so they tell women what they want to hear to get what they need. Sex is cheap. Men know the majority of women aren’t worth the trouble because they have become the haystack, not the needle in the haystack. Good men know they are the unicorns and aren’t buying into entitled women
Gia Macool864,902 views • 2 years ago
This is the clearest, most accurate explanation of men and women I’ve ever come across 😂
Gia Macool129,035 views • 3 months ago
Love doesn’t keep a relationship together. Appreciation does. Men feel appreciated when a woman: •Anticipates his needs •Gives, not just receives, sex •Stands by him in hard times Women feel appreciated when a man: •Handles problems competently •Invests time, money, attention consistently •Makes her needs a priority, even when busy When both commit to unwavering appreciation, relationships are irreplaceable. Respect and love isn’t as important as appreciation…never forget this.
Gia Macool297,693 views • 9 months ago
“The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.”
Gia Macool25,849 views • 21 days ago
