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In an interview, what separates a top performer from an average one? Contrary to what everyone believes, it’s NOT about polish. Soleio looks for the opposite, and he's recruited the best of the best in the design world. Okay candidates tell tidy stories: the project was important, the team... aligned, the solution emerged, and good things happened. It all sounds great! That's the problem. Excellent candidates remember the mess. They tell you what they tried that failed. What they were convinced of and had to abandon. Where they disagreed. What got cut and why. Soleio compares it to the old Hollywood saying: show me a happy set and I'll show you a bad movie. Great work leaves residual pain, and the pain is the more interesting story. The pain is specific. When someone has really lived inside a problem, they know the story. They know exactly where their contribution starts and someone else's ends. They don't dance around the work. So the next time you're interviewing, listen for the mess.show more

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