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Matt Damon says he avoids giving relationship advice for one simple reason. "Everyone's relationship is different." "It's tough to give relationship advice." He says every relationship works differently. "And you don't want to sound like a jackass." Damon also believes it's dangerous to assume your own relationship has it...

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