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Projective identification is a concept describing how a person disavows emotions like anger or resentment. Instead of acknowledging them, they unconsciously attempts to provoke those same feelings in someone else. The aim is for the other person to experience the emotion, and coerce them into processing the feelings the... original person is avoiding. Rather than admit I’m angry, I might behave in a way that makes you feel angry. Then I can accuse you of being the angry one and criticize you for it. This allows me to engage with the emotion without owning it. This differs from simple projection, where someone attributes unwanted feelings to another—saying “you’re angry” when the anger is actually theirs. Projective identification goes further. It means shaping interactions to trigger a specific response, using others to carry emotions one won’t acknowledge. Rage is a common example—especially intense rage. Rather than face it, people try to elicit it in others.show more

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‘IS GOD IS’ director Aleshea Harris discusses the themes behind the film: “I know the rules for being a Black woman and a Black girl, which is that the dictates of respectability are that you have to conduct yourself in a certain way, you have to hold things down, and you shouldn't show your anger. And I think that that's dehumanizing, which is part of the reason that I allowed these women the full measure of their humanity. Allowed them to get messy, allowed them their rage, which for me was restorative and healing, to say, 'No, actually, you have reasons to be angry, and you can express that anger. It's a perfectly human emotion.' So I knew that that line was there, and I was intentionally stepping over it.”

‘IS GOD IS’ director Aleshea Harris discusses the themes behind the film: “I know the rules for being a Black woman and a Black girl, which is that the dictates of respectability are that you have to conduct yourself in a certain way, you have to hold things down, and you shouldn't show your anger. And I think that that's dehumanizing, which is part of the reason that I allowed these women the full measure of their humanity. Allowed them to get messy, allowed them their rage, which for me was restorative and healing, to say, 'No, actually, you have reasons to be angry, and you can express that anger. It's a perfectly human emotion.' So I knew that that line was there, and I was intentionally stepping over it.”

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Gabor Maté on emotional suppression: Your anger didn't disappear. You just learned to hide it even from yourself. Gabor Maté, one of the world's leading voices on trauma and the mind-body connection, has spent decades studying why people get sick. His answer is often not what people expect. It isn't just stress. It isn't just genetics. A major culprit, Maté argues, is something most of us were trained to do before we could even name it: suppressing our own emotions to stay connected to the people we love. He starts with a simple observation about what anger actually is: "When you're angry it's not just an emotional state in your head. Your whole body is now [in that state]." Anger is a full-body event. Energy surges through the nervous system. It wants to move. Now imagine the cost of stopping it before it even surfaces. The deal children are forced to make Maté points to a specific, critical moment in early childhood: when a child's natural anger meets a parent's disapproval. He references Jordan Peterson's parenting advice that an angry child should be separated from the family until they return to "normal" as an example of a message many children receive in various forms: "If you're angry you will not be accepted by us. In fact you'll be excluded… until you come back to quote unquote normal." For a young child, that is not a minor social correction. That is an existential threat. Attachment to a caregiver is survival. So the child makes the only logical trade available to them: "They give up their authenticity for the sake of the attachment." The anger doesn't go anywhere. It just gets pushed underground. So deep, eventually, that the person no longer feels it at all. The body keeps the cost Repressing an emotion, especially one as physiologically charged as anger is not a passive act. It takes constant, active effort from the nervous system and the immune system. "That emotional, physiological effort of repressing anger takes a toll on the nervous system and on the immune system. It's a major role in disease." The body is not fooled by the mind's decision not to feel. The energy has to go somewhere. And over years and over decades that somewhere is tissue, organs, inflammation. Maté isn't arguing that children should be allowed to rage unchecked, or that parents who enforce boundaries are doing harm. He's pointing at something more subtle: the difference between helping a child process difficult emotions and teaching them to disappear those emotions entirely. One builds emotional capacity. The other trades it away quietly, early, at a price that often doesn't come due until decades later. And the person paying rarely connects the bill to the original transaction.

Gabor Maté on emotional suppression: Your anger didn't disappear. You just learned to hide it even from yourself. Gabor Maté, one of the world's leading voices on trauma and the mind-body connection, has spent decades studying why people get sick. His answer is often not what people expect. It isn't just stress. It isn't just genetics. A major culprit, Maté argues, is something most of us were trained to do before we could even name it: suppressing our own emotions to stay connected to the people we love. He starts with a simple observation about what anger actually is: "When you're angry it's not just an emotional state in your head. Your whole body is now [in that state]." Anger is a full-body event. Energy surges through the nervous system. It wants to move. Now imagine the cost of stopping it before it even surfaces. The deal children are forced to make Maté points to a specific, critical moment in early childhood: when a child's natural anger meets a parent's disapproval. He references Jordan Peterson's parenting advice that an angry child should be separated from the family until they return to "normal" as an example of a message many children receive in various forms: "If you're angry you will not be accepted by us. In fact you'll be excluded… until you come back to quote unquote normal." For a young child, that is not a minor social correction. That is an existential threat. Attachment to a caregiver is survival. So the child makes the only logical trade available to them: "They give up their authenticity for the sake of the attachment." The anger doesn't go anywhere. It just gets pushed underground. So deep, eventually, that the person no longer feels it at all. The body keeps the cost Repressing an emotion, especially one as physiologically charged as anger is not a passive act. It takes constant, active effort from the nervous system and the immune system. "That emotional, physiological effort of repressing anger takes a toll on the nervous system and on the immune system. It's a major role in disease." The body is not fooled by the mind's decision not to feel. The energy has to go somewhere. And over years and over decades that somewhere is tissue, organs, inflammation. Maté isn't arguing that children should be allowed to rage unchecked, or that parents who enforce boundaries are doing harm. He's pointing at something more subtle: the difference between helping a child process difficult emotions and teaching them to disappear those emotions entirely. One builds emotional capacity. The other trades it away quietly, early, at a price that often doesn't come due until decades later. And the person paying rarely connects the bill to the original transaction.

Kevin Tanaka

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Being Dominant means being the One in Control. Some people love it and some hate it, but either way, there is always someone in control and the areas where you are not the one in control, are where you have given that control to someone else! Being the one in control means being the one people TRUST to lead, to be in charge. And for us to hold that responsibility, we gotta be not only comfortable with that role, but to love it! To want it. Control holds negative connotations, yet if it is exerted by someone with positive intentions, it is very healthy. It means you trust yourself and don't need to rely on others to direct you. NOT being in control means chaos. It means helplessness. It means inability to make decisions. Or to take initiatives. It means you are the one that follows. And if that is what you actually desire you have to be conscious of that choice. Otherwise you fall into that role and then wonder why nothing goes as you want. And if you choose to follow, choose your leader wisely. There always is someone in control, someone in charge, someone that leads. There is always a power dynamic. Truth is, we feel safe with those in control. Especially when they show us that them being in that role is positive for us. But so many people trust others more than they trust themselves! Which means being constantly influenced by everyone else's option and advice... which makes then the ones in control of your life! Decide WHO you want to take control when you want or need it, but also choose when YOU should be The One in charge. Developing that self-trust requires radical self responsibility. Which is what people struggle with. Nobody wants to be responsible for anything. And then we blame everyone for why our lives are not what we want them to be. And if you DO want to dominate, start by controling your own Self, your own thoughts, your own life. You can't expect others to trust YOU if YOU don't. Think about it... those that are in control are the people that have the most influence in the world. So if conscious people who desire to create a positive change take more control/responsibility, it would literally change society as we know it.

Being Dominant means being the One in Control. Some people love it and some hate it, but either way, there is always someone in control and the areas where you are not the one in control, are where you have given that control to someone else! Being the one in control means being the one people TRUST to lead, to be in charge. And for us to hold that responsibility, we gotta be not only comfortable with that role, but to love it! To want it. Control holds negative connotations, yet if it is exerted by someone with positive intentions, it is very healthy. It means you trust yourself and don't need to rely on others to direct you. NOT being in control means chaos. It means helplessness. It means inability to make decisions. Or to take initiatives. It means you are the one that follows. And if that is what you actually desire you have to be conscious of that choice. Otherwise you fall into that role and then wonder why nothing goes as you want. And if you choose to follow, choose your leader wisely. There always is someone in control, someone in charge, someone that leads. There is always a power dynamic. Truth is, we feel safe with those in control. Especially when they show us that them being in that role is positive for us. But so many people trust others more than they trust themselves! Which means being constantly influenced by everyone else's option and advice... which makes then the ones in control of your life! Decide WHO you want to take control when you want or need it, but also choose when YOU should be The One in charge. Developing that self-trust requires radical self responsibility. Which is what people struggle with. Nobody wants to be responsible for anything. And then we blame everyone for why our lives are not what we want them to be. And if you DO want to dominate, start by controling your own Self, your own thoughts, your own life. You can't expect others to trust YOU if YOU don't. Think about it... those that are in control are the people that have the most influence in the world. So if conscious people who desire to create a positive change take more control/responsibility, it would literally change society as we know it.

Ms. Malissia

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I can block you now, and I won't hesitate. A bit harsh, but here me out: Every introduction I make has my name on it. When I connect two people, I'm saying "I trust this person enough to put them in front of someone I care about." So that means the quality of my network is directly tied to how people behave inside of it. If someone is rude to me, cusses me out, or uses one of my connections as an opportunity to be disrespectful to someone else, I'm going to block them. I can't risk the goodwill I've built up with others. Sometimes I can unblock you. If you think it was a mistake, continue texting and make your case. I promise I'm reasonable.

I can block you now, and I won't hesitate. A bit harsh, but here me out: Every introduction I make has my name on it. When I connect two people, I'm saying "I trust this person enough to put them in front of someone I care about." So that means the quality of my network is directly tied to how people behave inside of it. If someone is rude to me, cusses me out, or uses one of my connections as an opportunity to be disrespectful to someone else, I'm going to block them. I can't risk the goodwill I've built up with others. Sometimes I can unblock you. If you think it was a mistake, continue texting and make your case. I promise I'm reasonable.

Boardy

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Tony Robbins explains why two people can live the same moment but experience completely different lives “We don’t experience life, we experience the part of life we focus on. The minute you focus on something, your brain has to decide what it means, and meaning is what creates emotion. And emotion is where your life is. That’s why the quality of your life is the quality of your emotions. If you got $1 billion and every day you’re pissed off and angry, your life’s quality is that” “Then there’s a third decision, which is what you’re going to do. Because if something happens and you say this person is dissing you, you’ll feel angry and make one decision. But if you think they’re coaching you or loving you, you’ll feel different and act differently. Those three decisions, what you focus on, what it means, and what you do, control your life”

Tony Robbins explains why two people can live the same moment but experience completely different lives “We don’t experience life, we experience the part of life we focus on. The minute you focus on something, your brain has to decide what it means, and meaning is what creates emotion. And emotion is where your life is. That’s why the quality of your life is the quality of your emotions. If you got $1 billion and every day you’re pissed off and angry, your life’s quality is that” “Then there’s a third decision, which is what you’re going to do. Because if something happens and you say this person is dissing you, you’ll feel angry and make one decision. But if you think they’re coaching you or loving you, you’ll feel different and act differently. Those three decisions, what you focus on, what it means, and what you do, control your life”

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I don’t actually mean it the way you think … what I mean is sooooo many of you are soooooo angry at your parents for what THEY DID … without you spending a second time thinking of what happened to them and oftentimes what happened to them was based on their anger and resentment and the negative impact that they got from their parents, AKA the concept of this post. Before you get super Bob down at the details , "Grandma, what did great grandma do or great grandpa do?" This is all generational. The real question is: instead of being angry at your parents, are you going to stop the pattern and put in the work and surround yourself with positivity and accountability and have the right people around you? Whether it's meditation or exercise or therapy or other things, are you going to put in the work to get to the next place so you can stop the negativity, the pessimism, the cynicism, the fear and create a new chapter in your family's world?

I don’t actually mean it the way you think … what I mean is sooooo many of you are soooooo angry at your parents for what THEY DID … without you spending a second time thinking of what happened to them and oftentimes what happened to them was based on their anger and resentment and the negative impact that they got from their parents, AKA the concept of this post. Before you get super Bob down at the details , "Grandma, what did great grandma do or great grandpa do?" This is all generational. The real question is: instead of being angry at your parents, are you going to stop the pattern and put in the work and surround yourself with positivity and accountability and have the right people around you? Whether it's meditation or exercise or therapy or other things, are you going to put in the work to get to the next place so you can stop the negativity, the pessimism, the cynicism, the fear and create a new chapter in your family's world?

Gary Vaynerchuk

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“There’s a concept in Judaism called Lashon Hara, which means evil speech. The idea is that speaking poorly of another is almost the moral equivalent to murder, because you can’t really repair it. You can apologize, but you can’t repair it. Another component of that is that it does as much damage to the person saying the words than it does to the person receiving them. And I think about that a lot. I talk about this concept with my kids a lot, and I’m not willing to pay the price of that fleeting and momentary satisfaction of sort of swinging back because I think it would be too expensive for my soul. And that’s how I made peace with it, because I think that feels more true for me.” -Ivanka Trump explaining to Lex Fridman how she’s handled the barrage of attacks aimed her way over the last decade.

“There’s a concept in Judaism called Lashon Hara, which means evil speech. The idea is that speaking poorly of another is almost the moral equivalent to murder, because you can’t really repair it. You can apologize, but you can’t repair it. Another component of that is that it does as much damage to the person saying the words than it does to the person receiving them. And I think about that a lot. I talk about this concept with my kids a lot, and I’m not willing to pay the price of that fleeting and momentary satisfaction of sort of swinging back because I think it would be too expensive for my soul. And that’s how I made peace with it, because I think that feels more true for me.” -Ivanka Trump explaining to Lex Fridman how she’s handled the barrage of attacks aimed her way over the last decade.

Dovi Safier

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"F*ck it I am going to just say it and if you get your feelings hurt, good you kind of need it." "Can we stop saying that everything is racist, it is getting tiring at this point." "The word has lost it's meaning." "When I hear it, I am just going to assume that person has lost the argument and has nothing else of substance to add to the conversation." Same goes for every other 'name' or 'phobia' they try to throw at Conservatives.

"F*ck it I am going to just say it and if you get your feelings hurt, good you kind of need it." "Can we stop saying that everything is racist, it is getting tiring at this point." "The word has lost it's meaning." "When I hear it, I am just going to assume that person has lost the argument and has nothing else of substance to add to the conversation." Same goes for every other 'name' or 'phobia' they try to throw at Conservatives.

AmericanPapaBear™

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Emotions come and go—that’s the nature of being human. One moment you feel joy, the next, anger or sadness. That doesn’t mean something’s wrong with you. It means you’re alive. The key is not to resist what you feel… but to understand it. To sit with it. To learn from it without letting it define you. Even the wisest man has storms within— he’s just learned how to sail through them.

Emotions come and go—that’s the nature of being human. One moment you feel joy, the next, anger or sadness. That doesn’t mean something’s wrong with you. It means you’re alive. The key is not to resist what you feel… but to understand it. To sit with it. To learn from it without letting it define you. Even the wisest man has storms within— he’s just learned how to sail through them.

𖣂Prince𖣂

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I have a disabled brother, so seeing this makes me so angry. And the fact that Jazmyn is with someone like that and laughs about it says a lot about her as a person. A big "fuck you" to Jazmyn Nyx and her shitty boyfriend. Be rather like CM Punk🙏🏼❤️

I have a disabled brother, so seeing this makes me so angry. And the fact that Jazmyn is with someone like that and laughs about it says a lot about her as a person. A big "fuck you" to Jazmyn Nyx and her shitty boyfriend. Be rather like CM Punk🙏🏼❤️

AJ

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Many people often times wonder why it is that mosquitoes transmit malaria from one person to another but same mosquito cannot transmit HIV from one person to another. I summarized the reason in this video but I will also reiterate 1. HIV cannot survive inside mosquitoes When mosquito bites someone infected with HIV, it actually picks up some of the virus . However the virus is rapidly broken down in the gut of the mosquito . Hence it does not get passed to the next person. 2. Mosquitoes do not inject previous blood into the next person When mosquitoes bite a person, they inject saliva into the person’s bite spot and this saliva is what prevents the blood from clotting while the mosquito sucks out the blood juice. It is through this process of injection of saliva that it passes Malaria , Dengue fever etc but HIV can’t be passed this way 3. HIV can only survive I specific body cells HIV needs specific body cells called CD4 cells to survive . Of course mosquito does not have those cells and HIV can thus not survive inside them. It is degraded immediately Therefore when next someone suggests that Mosquito can transmit HIV. Please feel free to give them a resounding slap on my behalf . Thank You Dr Penking

Many people often times wonder why it is that mosquitoes transmit malaria from one person to another but same mosquito cannot transmit HIV from one person to another. I summarized the reason in this video but I will also reiterate 1. HIV cannot survive inside mosquitoes When mosquito bites someone infected with HIV, it actually picks up some of the virus . However the virus is rapidly broken down in the gut of the mosquito . Hence it does not get passed to the next person. 2. Mosquitoes do not inject previous blood into the next person When mosquitoes bite a person, they inject saliva into the person’s bite spot and this saliva is what prevents the blood from clotting while the mosquito sucks out the blood juice. It is through this process of injection of saliva that it passes Malaria , Dengue fever etc but HIV can’t be passed this way 3. HIV can only survive I specific body cells HIV needs specific body cells called CD4 cells to survive . Of course mosquito does not have those cells and HIV can thus not survive inside them. It is degraded immediately Therefore when next someone suggests that Mosquito can transmit HIV. Please feel free to give them a resounding slap on my behalf . Thank You Dr Penking

Dr Penking™

59,932 Aufrufe • vor 3 Monaten

Pavel Durov on why he hasn't had depression in 20 years: "I normally never have depression. I don't remember having depression in the last 20 years, at least maybe when I was a teenager." Pavel's approach to difficult emotions is completely counterintuitive. As he puts it: "I'm a human being like everybody else. I do get to experience emotions and some of them are not very pleasant. But I believe that it's the responsibility of every one of us to cope with these emotions and to learn to work through them." On what creates depression: "Self-discipline is particularly important because without it, how can you overcome this seemingly endless loop of negativity or despair that ultimately leads to depression for some people?" His method: "One of the reasons I don't have depression is I start doing things. I identify the problem, I can see a solution, and I start executing the strategy. If you are stuck in this loop of being worried about something, nothing's ever going to change." The mistake people make: "People often make this mistake thinking 'Oh, I should just have some rest and then regain energy.' This is not how it works. You gain energy by doing something. So you start doing something, then it happens. You feel motivated, you feel inspired, and then ultimately you do something else a little bit more." He continues: "The whole point is to do first and then feel, not feel and then do. Going to the gym is a good example. There are many days when you don't want to start working out. But you have to overcome this initial reluctance and then you get to a point that you enjoy it and you think 'Oh my god, it was such a good idea to come to gym today.'" Action creates energy, not the other way around.

Pavel Durov on why he hasn't had depression in 20 years: "I normally never have depression. I don't remember having depression in the last 20 years, at least maybe when I was a teenager." Pavel's approach to difficult emotions is completely counterintuitive. As he puts it: "I'm a human being like everybody else. I do get to experience emotions and some of them are not very pleasant. But I believe that it's the responsibility of every one of us to cope with these emotions and to learn to work through them." On what creates depression: "Self-discipline is particularly important because without it, how can you overcome this seemingly endless loop of negativity or despair that ultimately leads to depression for some people?" His method: "One of the reasons I don't have depression is I start doing things. I identify the problem, I can see a solution, and I start executing the strategy. If you are stuck in this loop of being worried about something, nothing's ever going to change." The mistake people make: "People often make this mistake thinking 'Oh, I should just have some rest and then regain energy.' This is not how it works. You gain energy by doing something. So you start doing something, then it happens. You feel motivated, you feel inspired, and then ultimately you do something else a little bit more." He continues: "The whole point is to do first and then feel, not feel and then do. Going to the gym is a good example. There are many days when you don't want to start working out. But you have to overcome this initial reluctance and then you get to a point that you enjoy it and you think 'Oh my god, it was such a good idea to come to gym today.'" Action creates energy, not the other way around.

Jaynit

547,435 Aufrufe • vor 6 Monaten

Anger and hatred are very different. Anger is an evolved emotion with a specific function: it helps us bargain for better treatment. If you anger me, I may respond in ways that attempt to recalibrate how you treat me—by inflicting costs or withholding benefits. Anger is typically expressed through verbal confrontation, hostility, or even by withdrawing, such as giving someone the silent treatment. In all of these cases, the goal of anger is to navigate the relationship and change the other person’s behavior. Hatred, however, is different. Hatred goes beyond bargaining. It is the belief that the target is so toxic, so costly to one’s well-being, that the world would be better if they no longer existed. Anger says, “I want you to treat me differently.” Hatred says, “You shouldn’t exist anymore.”

Anger and hatred are very different. Anger is an evolved emotion with a specific function: it helps us bargain for better treatment. If you anger me, I may respond in ways that attempt to recalibrate how you treat me—by inflicting costs or withholding benefits. Anger is typically expressed through verbal confrontation, hostility, or even by withdrawing, such as giving someone the silent treatment. In all of these cases, the goal of anger is to navigate the relationship and change the other person’s behavior. Hatred, however, is different. Hatred goes beyond bargaining. It is the belief that the target is so toxic, so costly to one’s well-being, that the world would be better if they no longer existed. Anger says, “I want you to treat me differently.” Hatred says, “You shouldn’t exist anymore.”

Rob Henderson

15,488 Aufrufe • vor 10 Monaten

Smash or Pass streams are fun, and I don't actually care about being passed at all. It's all for fun and for seeing other vtubers! The issue is calling someone a "prissy bitch" when they know nothing about that vtuber's personality or lore. Also, it is rude to say "if she gets upset when people don't wanna smash her character, then you need to go touch grass". This person and the others were also practically insulting my design and the work that my amazing artist put in by saying that it looked "copy and pasted" and like a "generic E-Girl" and that "E-Girls were F***ing boring". Please remember that there is a person behind every model and those people do have feelings. I didn't join to be insulted, I was hoping to see a fun time! Don't be like this. Especially when on a live stream with the person watching. Thank you for coming to my Spit Talk. 💙

Smash or Pass streams are fun, and I don't actually care about being passed at all. It's all for fun and for seeing other vtubers! The issue is calling someone a "prissy bitch" when they know nothing about that vtuber's personality or lore. Also, it is rude to say "if she gets upset when people don't wanna smash her character, then you need to go touch grass". This person and the others were also practically insulting my design and the work that my amazing artist put in by saying that it looked "copy and pasted" and like a "generic E-Girl" and that "E-Girls were F***ing boring". Please remember that there is a person behind every model and those people do have feelings. I didn't join to be insulted, I was hoping to see a fun time! Don't be like this. Especially when on a live stream with the person watching. Thank you for coming to my Spit Talk. 💙

Dragonspit 🔜 OFFKAI 🩵

1,768,560 Aufrufe • vor 2 Jahren

🇸🇾 President Assad: "The brilliance of the West is they gave us slogans, and a large part of the world believed them. 'Freedom' is a beautiful term, but it can be the freedom of a person to kill others, the freedom to destroy... the same thing with democracy. This beautiful term can have an ugly content. For them, democracy is only one freedom: to accept the modern liberal concepts they want to impose on you. This is their democracy - for you to accept what they want. Democracy is to be a slave to them, and you will be labeled a democrat."

🇸🇾 President Assad: "The brilliance of the West is they gave us slogans, and a large part of the world believed them. 'Freedom' is a beautiful term, but it can be the freedom of a person to kill others, the freedom to destroy... the same thing with democracy. This beautiful term can have an ugly content. For them, democracy is only one freedom: to accept the modern liberal concepts they want to impose on you. This is their democracy - for you to accept what they want. Democracy is to be a slave to them, and you will be labeled a democrat."

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149,949 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr

Every song release is a big deal. This song has waited a long time to have its moment. I remember when Sara, Sam and I wrote Fragile (the same day we wrote another song called Madness), it held a special place in my soul as a human. So much so, that it kept disappearing from different projects as if to wait for the right moment to be introduced to the world. Being on Evergreen, song release number 3… it’s crazy how things work themselves out for the best when you trust the process. I always wanted to change the lyrics of the first line because I was afraid it wouldn’t make sense. But the more I worked with it, the more personal it became, and the more truth it carried. I would tell you what it means to me, but I want to hear how all of you connect with it first, so I’ll just say this… This one is for anyone in a season of life where the structure of you that you’ve built for the world needs to take a break and make space to care for the human inside. Whether you have those people, or that person in your life that loves and supports that human, or you’re looking forward to meeting that person someday, this is for you. You deserve to be the human you are, and you deserve to be loved and seen for that human. And if you haven’t felt it yet, I can’t wait for you to feel what it’s like to find someone who makes you feel safe enough to be Fragile.

Every song release is a big deal. This song has waited a long time to have its moment. I remember when Sara, Sam and I wrote Fragile (the same day we wrote another song called Madness), it held a special place in my soul as a human. So much so, that it kept disappearing from different projects as if to wait for the right moment to be introduced to the world. Being on Evergreen, song release number 3… it’s crazy how things work themselves out for the best when you trust the process. I always wanted to change the lyrics of the first line because I was afraid it wouldn’t make sense. But the more I worked with it, the more personal it became, and the more truth it carried. I would tell you what it means to me, but I want to hear how all of you connect with it first, so I’ll just say this… This one is for anyone in a season of life where the structure of you that you’ve built for the world needs to take a break and make space to care for the human inside. Whether you have those people, or that person in your life that loves and supports that human, or you’re looking forward to meeting that person someday, this is for you. You deserve to be the human you are, and you deserve to be loved and seen for that human. And if you haven’t felt it yet, I can’t wait for you to feel what it’s like to find someone who makes you feel safe enough to be Fragile.

Hunter Hayes

24,658 Aufrufe • vor 11 Monaten

As a black belt, this is how I prefer to roll, not driven by personal development or even the enjoyment of it. I roll because it is good in and of itself. I strive to give of myself generously and to take what comes my way openly, without apology. Most of my time on the mat is spent guiding others, helping them navigate Jiu Jitsu. But when it’s my turn to roll, it becomes an experience that exists purely for its own sake. Jiu Jitsu is a ritual, not an outlet for pent-up emotions, nor is it a stage for personal theatrics. It transcends the release or display of personality. If anything, it functions as an escape from emotion and personality. Within this space of calm detachment, there emerges a kind of vision or fluency. This vision is the capacity to take the unpredictable and the unforeseen and seamlessly integrate it in a way that brings new meaning and value. Instead of feeling destabilized by the unexpected, allow it to deepen your perspective. The question is not how to avoid disruptions, but how to dance with them, absorb them, and become more adaptable through the encounter.

As a black belt, this is how I prefer to roll, not driven by personal development or even the enjoyment of it. I roll because it is good in and of itself. I strive to give of myself generously and to take what comes my way openly, without apology. Most of my time on the mat is spent guiding others, helping them navigate Jiu Jitsu. But when it’s my turn to roll, it becomes an experience that exists purely for its own sake. Jiu Jitsu is a ritual, not an outlet for pent-up emotions, nor is it a stage for personal theatrics. It transcends the release or display of personality. If anything, it functions as an escape from emotion and personality. Within this space of calm detachment, there emerges a kind of vision or fluency. This vision is the capacity to take the unpredictable and the unforeseen and seamlessly integrate it in a way that brings new meaning and value. Instead of feeling destabilized by the unexpected, allow it to deepen your perspective. The question is not how to avoid disruptions, but how to dance with them, absorb them, and become more adaptable through the encounter.

Drewlock

22,484 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr

problems can feel so big when you’re in it but in hindsight not to much. i think this ending of the mv is a nod to that and a nod to her own agency in her healing rather than looking for healing through someone else

problems can feel so big when you’re in it but in hindsight not to much. i think this ending of the mv is a nod to that and a nod to her own agency in her healing rather than looking for healing through someone else

peej ꩜

133,902 Aufrufe • vor 2 Monaten

Relapse is a common part of addiction. And generally, when someone has a pattern of poor decisions, no matter the reason people tend to lose trust in them, especially when it comes to serious responsibilities like caring for others. Addiction doesn’t just happen out of nowhere; it starts with a choice at some point. But regardless, those choices carry consequences, and you have to face them.

Relapse is a common part of addiction. And generally, when someone has a pattern of poor decisions, no matter the reason people tend to lose trust in them, especially when it comes to serious responsibilities like caring for others. Addiction doesn’t just happen out of nowhere; it starts with a choice at some point. But regardless, those choices carry consequences, and you have to face them.

uti jerry

66,634 Aufrufe • vor 3 Monaten