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Chase Hughes drops the wildest self-improvement hack: Become so self-forgiving it’s almost delusional. “Most people look back with regret and shame… Get so forgiving of everything you’ve ever done that it’s like delusional to the point where it’s just crazy. You get to a point where everything is fine...

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